Bromeo Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 "This is the reason why every woman you've ever loved has abandoned you." She knew that one of my big fears was being left again, after at 18 my Mormon gf left me out of the blue to go to Utah, and my wife had left with my baby. So much for being vulnerable around someone. I was taking her to a tour of a distillery 30 minutes from my house. I turned around and took her back. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Altair0770 Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 It wasn't meant to be 1 Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 (edited) in that mobile village i spoke of earlier my ex had a friend lets call him dick for short......suits him..... we went on a double date ......to a restaurant i was pregnant and needed to go to the toilet so this was about three week before the big blow up that made me move .....and as i was walking back behind the fresco like little alcove i heard them talking and something made me stop......dick was saying to my ex ...you can do better than her ...she is ugly.......she is so fat ....no ankles...(my feet were often swollen)..my ex agreed with him by laughing......i worked for food at this little takeaway shop in the village....because i had to ......i was on my feet alot..... all our money went on drugs and alcohol if i didnt get to it first..... so the shop owners loved me and would let me tic up food oftenmy boss she was greek would cook for my family when she cooked for hers and itroduced me to th beauty of greek cuisine..... and bring food for me......and i worked it off dish washing.....my ex wasnt working...and he kept the money so i fed my kids by dish washing and myself with a little pocket money sometimes.....i heard dicks girlfriend say dont say that she is a really good person.....and she said to my ex do you love her......he sadi thats none fo your business...and she said just answer the question...and he said...yeah not enough to marry her...... i think that could be the worst thing i have heard.....my ex say...i never told him i heard that....... before i moved on out fo that village...dick cracked onto me when my ex wasnt around...never told my ex for a very long time about that...i did end up telling him when he was once saying how much he missed dick as a friend...i made it clear with truth what i thought dicks friendship should mean to him.........deb . Edited April 8, 2017 by a LoveShack.org Moderator language ~T Link to post Share on other sites
Buttercat Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 He said 'I don't think I ever want to get married but if I did, it would be to you'. Kept me hanging on and hoping for years. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Heartbrokenandhurt Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 'You'll find someone else... its not meant to be me' Goes through my head numerous times every single f***ing day I barely handle it anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
Author klick09 Posted April 5, 2017 Author Share Posted April 5, 2017 'You'll find someone else... its not meant to be me' Goes through my head numerous times every single f***ing day I barely handle it anymore. How long have you been broken up? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 illl be back and take you to the hospital i just need to do something.....i was miscarrying...he never came back...i lost the baby...would have lost the baby anyway.....but he broke a promise when i needed him most...thats th eworst thign to say to me...is promise ....and then break it.....actually....saying these things happen after coming home the next day with a hangover.........is maybe the worst..........deb Link to post Share on other sites
keiji Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 "If you come to my father's funeral, I'll spit on your face". Not bad. Link to post Share on other sites
Arieswoman Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 "If you come to my father's funeral, I'll spit on your face". That's vile. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
keiji Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 That's vile. I spoke to her two years later and she said she had been expecting me at the funeral, that she was craving for me to be there. Go figure. Link to post Share on other sites
Cookies101 Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 There are too many to mention. "Ive never asked anyone to stay" when i asked where i stood. "im showing you how i feel" when i said 'you're giving me nothing (as in, no empathy). "It is your choice (to do that job)" when i was explaining that my back was sore and i was exhausted after working 2 x 13 hour, very physical shifts in the searing heat... There is more. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BryanSmiley Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 I can’t wait to see you. Followed by 3 days later, “there’s something missing between us”. Link to post Share on other sites
jorgeg3d Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 I think I'd rather hear something horrible to help me get over them rather then leave questions unanswered. "I don't even feel like this is my home, I feel like a stranger here" after living together for 10 months and I let her buy new furniture and make the place our "home". 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LJayCoolade Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 "It's not you, it's me" 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jorgeg3d Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 Oh and "I'd rather be alone than feeling like this" even though she never explained how "horrible" she felt being with me until the end. Link to post Share on other sites
act00 Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 "You're disgusting and I'm embarrassed to be seen with you." "I was planning on leaving when <the kid> starts kindergarten." 1 Link to post Share on other sites
keiji Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 Some more by Ms. I'll Spit On Your Face that just came to mind: "You're handsome by accident" (whatever that means) "I'm gonna take an AIDS test. I find the idea of having had sex with you disgusting" (I had never cheated on her or anything. Two years later she wanted to be with me again, including sex, of course). Boy, was she mean when she wanted. My latest ex-girlfriend: "You're the most frustrating person I have ever met". Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 (edited) i love you but im not in love with you Edited April 5, 2017 by todreaminblue 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Bromeo Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 It's funny how the most tumultuous relationships leave scars that persist. My favorite, "If you were only a better man, we'd be together. I was brave to run away." Yup, after reading my thread again, I agree, it took some balls to act that way. LOL 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Raena Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 Did he ever apologize? Any karma that hit him really hard? Nope, not really. He's had some rough times, got cheated on by the person he cheated on me with but nothing compares to what he did to me. Not just this one incident either, there were many but this particular one sticks with me. It was almost 15 years ago and I can still see that one incident happening in my head like it was just yesterday. Link to post Share on other sites
JFReyes Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 i love you but im not in love with you Yep, I've gotten this one from 2 different women. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
forbidden93 Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 After being together for 3 years and staying 1 year long term (due to her job in other city) she dumped me saying I don't have that old spark and feelings I have fallen for this other guy who happens to be my colleague I just hate you and I don't care if you live or die Never ever call me back""" And then she disappeared (This whole scene happened 2 months ago) Link to post Share on other sites
Buttercat Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 Oh, I have another one (different guy). After forcing himself on me when I was clearly fighting him off and saying no 'I thought you were just playing a game, stop making such a big deal out of it'. We had a somewhat kinky sex life but rape fantasy was never part of it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author klick09 Posted April 5, 2017 Author Share Posted April 5, 2017 Nope, not really. He's had some rough times, got cheated on by the person he cheated on me with but nothing compares to what he did to me. Not just this one incident either, there were many but this particular one sticks with me. It was almost 15 years ago and I can still see that one incident happening in my head like it was just yesterday. I read somewhere that some times, you need to accept an apology you never got. Hugs to you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MeadowFlower Posted April 5, 2017 Share Posted April 5, 2017 i love you but im not in love with you That, is the stupidest thing ever. It's rubbish. And immaturity. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
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