darser Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Hello community, it's been a long time since we talked, so just want your honest opinion on a matter that came to me this day. So story short, ex broke up with me 2 1/2 years ago and i was a mess after that happened, some time pass, i get a girlfriend she gets a boyfriends, she gets engaged and ends up married (yea, a tad fast, but i guess it work for a lot of people). ANYWHO, my ex and myself haven't talked in around... 1 year+, before Each time i tried to dialogue with her, she would kind of not answer me, or delay the answers to whenever she though was the best moment for her to answer, and would throw a lil fit when i was busy and couldn't answer her, so we ended the talks and went our different lives, yesterday i received a message from her, not friendly nor anything, just a simple yet powerful message that for most of you will be an immediate logical answer, but i want to hear what you actually think. "Just to let you know, if you want to add me on fb again, you can..." Sure sounds like a pretty innocent and stupid reason to be posting on here, but i want some opinions on this matter of fact, try to establish a dialogue just for the good ol' times, or let the opportunity pass and not try that. lil background of myself = i'm a med student almost graduating [21 y/o and yes, i don't study in the states, reason why i'm so young], in a good economic position and with a great environment family/gf/friends/work/study. Ex = i have no clue, only know she got married, that kind of it. Appreciate the answers! Link to post Share on other sites
grays Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Why on earth didnt she just friend request you if she wanted to be friends? Link to post Share on other sites
FoundLove Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 I honestly think you should ignore her message and not add her. The first thing that came to my mind is that she simply wants you to see all the pics she shares of her and her husband, which will only hurt you if you still have lingering feelings for her. Also, she's married, so there really is no point in establishing a dialogue between the two of you. I'd say stay away for your own good. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
keiji Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 The message sounds like she's sparing your life and doing you a favor by letting you in on her social media profile. I wouldn't even answer. Link to post Share on other sites
AT15 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 I have to agree. She wants to know what YOU are doing. I wouldn't go her the satisfaction. Ignore her. Or at least, I would ignore her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author darser Posted April 8, 2017 Author Share Posted April 8, 2017 I honestly think you should ignore her message and not add her. The first thing that came to my mind is that she simply wants you to see all the pics she shares of her and her husband, which will only hurt you if you still have lingering feelings for her. Also, she's married, so there really is no point in establishing a dialogue between the two of you. I'd say stay away for your own good. Ty all for your answers, I followed your advices and some friends too, and told her the truth, left her the door open, but i wasn't gonna be the person initiating anything,if she wanted to know something from me, she can start it herself and not me going for the bait; and even tho she wondered why i didn't blocked her, my only response was me not being an immature prick, even tho it would had been the sanest thing to do. Link to post Share on other sites
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