sunshine12345 Posted April 8, 2017 Share Posted April 8, 2017 Hi everyone To cut a long story short... I met and dated a girl over a year ago. We hit it off straight away and made some wonderful memories together in those 3 months we were together. I know it was a short term rship but you know when that person is right for you and I believe we would have been still together to this day if I hadn't broken it off. The thing is I was suffering from depression at the mine I met her and was on prescribed medication. We wasn't all that sexually active as I would have liked.. as the side affects of the medication effected my mood and erections! So I decided to come off the mediation but slowly fell back into my old ways to a point where I needed space and broke it off with her. I left her heart broken and I continued to do my thing. After a few months passed I realised what I had done and tried to win her back with no success. Now a year on.. I recently got back in contact to wish her a happy birthday. We exchange a few messages and phone calls and it seemed she was interested in me again. She told me that she's dated 3 guys since after we split.. all which have failed and been horrible to her. She's told me I'm the only person that's treated her well in a long time and that she trusts me. We met up a week ago and it was great to see her. We don't live close to each other anymore as I temporarily moved away from the area. When we met, it felt like we hadn't been apart and we had a good day together and we agreed we would see how things go between us again. We got a bit intimate in the evening which was going to lead to sleeping together... but I stopped it. I must have been mad to stop it!! But I felt under the circumstances I would have preferred to wait until we were back on track and I had a long journey to go home that evening. I didn't want to just sleep with her and then leave.. I wanted to do it where we had longer time together. A week has past now and it seems she's gone really cold on me. It seems she's lost interest. Her texts aren't very forthcoming and it seems hard to make conversation with her. I really unsure what to do anymore.. I fed up of doing all the chasing and not getting anywhere. Look forward to hearing from your replies. Many thanks Link to post Share on other sites
frigginlost Posted April 8, 2017 Share Posted April 8, 2017 So in short, you broke her heart in the past, and then got together again only to deny her intimacy after she had dated three guys that treated her like crap. Kiss of death, man. She is not someone who is going to want to deal with any kind of head games right now. Just go do you and if she reaches out, reply. I wouldn't count on it though... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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