normal person Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 Please correct me if I'm wrong about this, but in my mind the priorities of a woman at age 18 are going to be different than from a 25 year old woman. When I say priorities, I'm speaking about the levels of expectations that women are looking for in guys. Now I'm not wanting to be cheap about this question, I'm just wanting to know where I stand. For a woman at age 18, is she going to be more interested in a 18 year old guy who has an apartment/small house, vs another 18 year old guy who lives with his parents? There's a lot more to consider than just a guy's age and living situation. To most women at 18, that stuff doesn't matter as much as you think it does. A likable, desirable guy at 25 who lives with his parents will probably still be more appealing than a robotic, squeeky clean pushover with his own apartment at 18. Thoughts? It's certainly not a knock against you, but you sound very "safe." As in, you do everything by the book, aren't going to cause anyone any trouble, aren't going to speak up, will fall in line and be compliant, etc. Which makes you a wonderful member of society -- but probably not the sexiest guy in the world. I'm certainly not advising you to "do bad things" but if you could find a way to be a little more aggressive and carefee, I think it'd be in your favor. I think you took a step in the right direction moving away from your parents. Take that ball and run with it in whatever way you're comfortable. Link to post Share on other sites
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