raditz Posted April 14, 2017 Share Posted April 14, 2017 our blended family wont blend. currently theres 5 of us. me. my gf her 10 yearold. my 10 year old and new baby. we often get into arguements over our children. i have my daughter a week on a week off. the other two are here fulltime. often arguments start because shell get mad at my kid for something but when her kid does it shell let it slide. then it goes into an in depth conversation of how her n her daughter have a mother daughter bond n stuff. its not equal n i when i try n talk about it she gets all ofended and it turns into an argument. **** never gets resolved because its always back n fourth. she made a strict rule list for the kids. no digging in the fridge. but last week she lectured my kid for digging in the fridge n gave her crap. today hers went into the fridge several times. when i pointed it out she got all rattled n sais well your kid eats up this food n that my kid doesnt n it just goes back. i feel like she lets alot of **** slide. n its annoying. i feel like she plays favourites Link to post Share on other sites
Telemachus Posted April 15, 2017 Share Posted April 15, 2017 This isn't working and seems more like a living arrangement than a "family." It may be time for either you or your girlfriend to find your own place. Link to post Share on other sites
mima74 Posted April 15, 2017 Share Posted April 15, 2017 I am in a very similar situation. 4 kids between the 2 of us. He plays favorites. It's hard. It's been 4 years together and it's been very challenging. I empathize with you. Link to post Share on other sites
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