Angeleyez2583 Posted July 30, 2005 Share Posted July 30, 2005 I guess this is part two of the saga with the ex. We talked on the phone finally yesterday. He came to my town (he lives an hour away) and stopped by my apartment. Anyway, so he puts his arm around me and starts cuddling with me. He kept looking me in the eyes giving me this weird look (hard to explain- like a good like). So anyway, first he started asking me if I wanted to have sex (he was serious) as soon as I said no, he goes.. I really didn't want to anyway. That's when the cuddling began. then we looked eachother in the eyes and just kissed. He says "why'd u kiss me" I'm like.. u kissed me.. (It seemed like he kissed me but I don't know). Anyway, this weirded me out. The feelings were obviously there, but then he pulls the whole. You're making that face. The whole night he kept telling me he knew me better then any guy ever could. THEN.. the most messed up thing of all .. he said.. This is what friends do. I'm thinking in my head, friends don't kiss eachother and friends don't cuddle. WTF. And it seemed like at one point he was testing me. I had plans to go out w/ my friends, but he kept saying, you don't have to go out. I thought u wanted me to come over and hang out.. He's too weird......... Link to post Share on other sites
A Fly onThe Wall Posted July 30, 2005 Share Posted July 30, 2005 He is an Ex .. What are you doing hanging out with him ? Breaking up is breaking up.. You don't breakup and say I hate you and never want to see you again.. but lets hang out and cuddle some or have sex and send each other birthday cards or e-mails or texts.. NC * NC * NC Link to post Share on other sites
Jaime03 Posted July 30, 2005 Share Posted July 30, 2005 Get rid of him. He is not worth It. He is an ex and that is the bottom line. There is a reason he is an ex. He is just playing mind games with you. From what you have said it sounds to me like he obviously has some issues. Your right he knows what he is doing and he is testing you...Friends do not do that...He still hasa feelings for you that is obvious. Do you really even want to spend time with someone who cant even just tell you how he feels? He is saying certain comments just to get a reaction out of you. My advice is to move on. Let him go be "friends" with someone else. Link to post Share on other sites
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