merrmeade Posted April 28, 2017 Share Posted April 28, 2017 Uhh...why? He sounds beyond passive/aggressive, abusive to you and your children and more than a little manipulative. It seems to me you're trying to balance some set of karmic scales and atone for your affair by reconciling with him, deserved or not. Cheating was obviously the wrong response. Unfortunately, so is moving back in with him... Mr. Lucky That's exactly how it looks to me, too, and I think nobody is doing themselves or anyone else a favor by mixing all these issues up together. You have the issue of your cheating. And then you have the issue of your husband's abusive behavior, which you have given a dangerous margin, implying that your actions drove him to it in part. I think you both need to be in therapy for your own reasons. By the way, has he ever hit you? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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