Is this Grass is Greener Sydrome

[Daking123]

After 7 months of NC my blows up my friend on Snapchat and he said "every question she asked she mention you" then the next day she hits me up on IG.

 

Since our breakup December 2015 I've kept to myself. I focus on me, while my ex was partying it up. She left me in December and that same week she got into a new relationship from what I heard the lasted 5 months. Ever since then she's been in 4-5 different relationships, partying, drinking, smoking, etc, has had numerous of jobs where she doesn't last a month or 2.

 

This was a girl who had changed her at one point working 2 jobs, going to school, going to church twice a week. Then all of a sudden boom the grass looks greener. Now she isn't who I remember.

 

I believe this is a product of GIGS. Idc if you believe in it or not. I'm calling it how I see it.

 

Yes after 7 months of NC she reached out to me, did I reply I did I was LC and then told her I had things to do. I believe the fog is starting to lift but who knows.

 

Do I want her back? I had to let her go so she could experience life on her own. I tell everyone if she matures yes I'd consider it.

 

Do I wait for her? No, I've been on dates I've enjoyed myself. I got to keep living life

[Blanco]

I remember your story. Your ex was always immature and impulsive. If I remember correctly, she was saying you two were soul mates after a couple weeks of dating. I believe you also let her move in with you really quickly.

 

So to me, it just sounds like she's maintained her impulsive behavior. She always sounded immature. That isn't GIGS. That's just someone who has no ability to see the bigger picture.

[ExpatInItaly]

No, don't wait for her.

 

At some point, you need to move on to find yourself someone who is already mature enough to be a consistent and stable presence in your life.