bsteph Posted May 5, 2017 Share Posted May 5, 2017 I was betrayed and cheated on. It's been several months and no contact. I still feel a need to want to expose him to his family, friends and co workers. I've been journaling, working out, seeing a therapist. I'm still so hurt and angry. I want him to suffer as much as I have. I keep trying to move on, tell myself he's not worth my time, but it eats at me. Any suggestions? Link to post Share on other sites
aileD Posted May 5, 2017 Share Posted May 5, 2017 Need more info... were you guys married? To each other or other people? Explain the cheating. How long were you together? Link to post Share on other sites
Tressugar Posted May 5, 2017 Share Posted May 5, 2017 You realize you posted under the OM/OW forum. Cheating, betrayed, marriage... etc? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted May 5, 2017 Share Posted May 5, 2017 I was betrayed and cheated on. It's been several months and no contact. I still feel a need to want to expose him to his family, friends and co workers. I've been journaling, working out, seeing a therapist. I'm still so hurt and angry. I want him to suffer as much as I have. I keep trying to move on, tell myself he's not worth my time, but it eats at me. Any suggestions? Don't do it. Focus on healing and just know the best revenge is living a happier life and not letting the past haunt you or affect you from moving forward. It's not good for your own mental health to hang onto pain or wanting revenge. It prevents you from moving on. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author bsteph Posted May 5, 2017 Author Share Posted May 5, 2017 I found out I was the OW. We were together for 2 years and it was great. He told me he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. I discovered he has been married for 3 years !!!!we met at his second home. He has a high position job and was gone on business trips often, red flag! I found out he was married when his wife called. He was in the shower and I answered the phone. I was in shock when we spoke and just hung up on her. I found pictures of them together on his phone. I didn't see any pictures of kids, so I assume he doesn't have any. He gave me bull**** answers when I confronted him. We were in his second home, that's why I didn't suspect anything. We had a few arguments after I found out, he tried calling, but I'm not going to be someone's mistress. He's full of bull**** and I want him to pay. Link to post Share on other sites
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