alphamale Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 Originally posted by d'Arthez Exit Alphas, enter charisma. hey man...i'm not going anywhere! Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 Originally posted by JS17 I don't want a jerk. I've never actually heard a woman declare she wanted a "jerk". But, many times, why do they usually end up with them? Woman cannot really verbalize what they want. heck, they don't even know what they want Link to post Share on other sites
JS17 Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale I've never actually heard a woman declare she wanted a "jerk". But, many times, why do they usually end up with them? Woman cannot really verbalize what they want. heck, they don't even know what they want I know what I want, I just can't find it. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 Originally posted by JS17 I know what I want, I just can't find it. exactly JS17....and reason you cannot find it is cause you're looking for a hot lookin dude who makes millions and is athletic with all his own hair and has a 12" penis. And is nice and does not cheat and make u the center of his world. Well good luck cause you'll have better luck finding a needle in a haystack the size of Manhattan. Link to post Share on other sites
JS17 Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale exactly JS17....and reason you cannot find it is cause you're looking for a hot lookin dude who makes millions and is athletic with all his own hair and has a 12" penis. And is nice and does not cheat and make u the center of his world. Well good luck cause you'll have better luck finding a needle in a haystack the size of Manhattan. I don't care about money, I have my own. I don't like sports so I'd like to find someone who isn't athletic, although it really doesn't matter either way. I've been with hot guys and I don't like them so I'm trying to find someone decent looking. A 12" penis would be nice but I was ready to marry someone with E.D. so it's obviously not that important to me. Nice to me and does not cheat and makes me the center of his world, that's about all i'm looking for. "Makes me laugh more than he makes me cry & minus a violent criminal record". Link to post Share on other sites
Mz. Pixie Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 - guy who is "hot" but doesn't cheat - guy who is "nice" and a "jerk" at the same time - guy who makes lots of money but is down to earth and humble - guy who dresses nicely but not better than her - guy who can wear jeans and a tux - guy who's attentive to her but totally non-attentive to other women - guy who's smart but not a nerd - guy who's not too skinny or too fat - guy who drinks but is not an alcoholic - guy who cooks, cleans, takes care of the kids and has a $300,000 salary Alpha, I don't always agree with you but sadly, I think that most of the women who say, "I can't find a decent guy" suffer from wanting the above. I have a great friend, who is pretty, sweet, loyal and attentive. She dated this guy for two years who wouldn't commit. On the looks scale he was WAY above her. She's pretty but he was pretty gorgeous. She's gained quite a bit of weight since they broke up but she is still attracted to the same type of guys. Won't give a guy a chance who is less gorgeous than her ex. She's alone alot! People have to be realistic about what type of person they attract. I'm not saying settle- but I'm saying if you're having trouble finding someone adjust your preferences slightly. Go out with a guy to see if you like him. Give someone a chance you wouldn't normally. You may be surprised what you find. I know when I was 25 I had a killer body and could have had almost any guy I wanted. Now that I'm older and two kids later I know I don't attract the same kind of guys that I did years ago- even if I do get told I look like Leanne Rimes! The fact is, there are no perfect people out there but you can find the person who's perfect for you. Don't ignore a diamond just because it may be in a different ring box than you might like! Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 Originally posted by Mz. Pixie Alpha, I don't always agree with you but sadly, I think that most of the women who say, "I can't find a decent guy" suffer from wanting the above. Many women, esp the attractive ones want everything in one package and they are not gonna get it....I know a woman who is in her late 30s, smart, looks like a supermodel, good job as a pharmaceutical rep, never married, no kids. She only dates guys who are very successful, MDs, lawyers, dentists, etc....If they don't make at least $200K she is not interested. Then she complains that all these guys are superficial, selfish, absorbed in their careers, etc....I mean WTF does she want? Of course these dudes are gonna be like that, that is why they are ultra-successful in the 1st place. Link to post Share on other sites
Mz. Pixie Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 Yeah, I hear ya on that. My husband has a good female friend who sounds like your friend. She's divorced and has a child but she only wants a guy who makes a ton of money- but yet she "wants a family guy". They've helped each other through divorce and breakups over the years since college but she got furious at him because she kept saying she couldn't find a decent guy. He told her that her requirements were too stiff! He said, you know I'm a decent family guy, but you'd never date a man like me who was a teacher instead of a dr because guys like me don't make enough money for you! Link to post Share on other sites
Marshbear32 Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 She only dates guys who are very successful, MDs, lawyers, dentists, etc....If they don't make at least $200K she is not interested. Alpha, she thinks she is in high demand. People like this think they don't have to settle. Would you want someone who expects you to cater to them to get and keep their attention? I have been down that road and believe me IT IS NOT PRETTY....... Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 Originally posted by Marshbear32 Alpha, she thinks she is in high demand. you are correct MB. she actually is in high demand now but wait for another 5 or 10 yrs when they same rich dudes she's running after will be interested in women 15 yrs younger than her life has a way of evening things out over time.... Link to post Share on other sites
loony Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 I would not necessarily consider being an MD, lawyer, dentist, etc. to be very successful. There a lots of them who don't make that much money. If she has a good career and has all these great attributes as you said, [color=#FF99FF]ALPHAMALE[/color], she shouldn't have such a problem finding a guy with a lot of money. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 Originally posted by loony I would not necessarily consider being an MD, lawyer, dentist, etc. to be very successful. There a lots of them who don't make that much money. the average male in the US makes about $40,000/yr. The average physican make about $250,000/yr. Link to post Share on other sites
loony Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale the average male in the US makes about $40,000/yr. The average physican make about $250,000/yr. You mean, just an average physician??? No wonder people have problems with health care... Link to post Share on other sites
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