laneyinlove Posted August 1, 2005 Share Posted August 1, 2005 So it's been 6 months since our official break up. We have been seeing each other on and off and I will admit that a lot of it is me going over to his place to hang out and we have been intimate. Well he has gotten promoted and will have to travel a lot and on his trip to San Franscisco he calls me up and asks if I want to accompany. I say yes and we end up driving an hour away. he's tired so I end up driving him and when we get to the hotel he's charged again and tries to seduce me. I say no but we fool around a bit no sex and fall asleep. The next day I went off to the coast and hung out while he was at his business meeting. he told me he would call me to let me know what time to pick him up but he never did and I ended up befriending some guys who have an awesome house party going on at the coast and lose track of time playing vollyball. well I get back to my ex and told him I was waiting for him to call and give me a heads up as to when to pick him up buthe gets out and then calls me to come pick him up. Well I tell him it was trafficky and i was playing vollyball with some guys I met. He gets mad and accuses me of drinking, which I had but only 3 beers in 5 hours and so at this point I think he's just mad at me for coming late and hanging with those guys but it wasn't my fault . It was 5 when I got back to him and we still could have stayed in San Fransisco and had some fun but he took me home right then and I ws crying in the car saying he treats me so bad . Then I fell asleep and he was petting me and telling me I look so beautiful when I sleep. Well we got back to his place and he fixes me dinner but he's still a bit mad at me and I at him. Then the next day I told him maybe we should cut ties and told him not to IM me anymore. He tells me he can't see me on IM without saying hi so he will have to block me. I called him and told him it was silly can't he just be grown up about it and he said if I want him to unblovk me he has to be able to say hello so I say fine. I dont' know what to make of any of this. Was he just using me as a companion onhis business trip? was he jelous I was having fun with other boys and wanted to punish me? Should I cut him off completley and am I looking like a pushover here? Please help Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted August 1, 2005 Share Posted August 1, 2005 1. Was he just using me as a companion onhis business trip? 2. was he jelous I was having fun with other boys and wanted to punish me? 3. Should I cut him off completley and am I looking like a pushover here? 1. Sort of. He still has enough feelings for you to be attracted to you and want to sleep with you, but not enough to make an actual relationship of it. 2. He wasn't jealous because someone was messing with his 'girlfriend' - he was mad at the idea of some other guy's sniffing around what he considers his 'territory'. He doesn't want to be your boyfriend, but he doesn't want to share you with anyone either. That has more to do with territorial guy stuff more than it does emotional attachment to you. 3. Yes - cut him off completely. That really would be best. Link to post Share on other sites
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