hayewils Posted May 9, 2017 Share Posted May 9, 2017 Hello all.. I haven't been on this site in what? 4 yrs now.. Last time I was here, I had been tossed to the side of the road. The person I was so crazy about took off. I had a very long time to reflect on my failures, but I also understand it wasn't all my fault, it takes two to tango right? Anyway, along my 4 yr journey I still missed this person, a part of me refused to move on. I remember a conversation I had at a work site one day, explaining my situation and it never dawned on me how crappy I was treated. When I finished sharing my story with this guy, he looked at me and said, "you loved this person"? I was like, wow,, I never looked at it that way. It is amazing how we can be lost in a fog of our relationships and fail to see the wrong that is there.. Well, update update.. I found out, thanks to public records, the ex got remarried.. not sure how long now but that doesn't matter. remember the part where I said there was a part of me that refused to move on. Well, I got exactly what I needed, closure. I tell you what, I feel fantastic. I feel that I had this cord tied to me all these last few years and it was finally severed. I have been in euphoria since last night. Took about an hour for it to soak in but then a sense of freedom. At the end of the day all I could think was well that was rude, I didn't even get an invite.. Anyway folks, I know what you all are going thru. I promise that life does go on and if I can help any body with a little inspiration I hope this does give a bit of hope. God bless all of you going thru your losses. Hold your heads up, keep trudging along cause the sun is coming.. Scott 2 Link to post Share on other sites
CM71 Posted May 13, 2017 Share Posted May 13, 2017 Thanks for sharing. I've been through this with my first wife and it absolutely gets better. Link to post Share on other sites
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