pipadoodle Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 hi all i have this friend and we spend alot of time together i know she likes me more dan a friend coz her friends have told me so. i have a girlfriend but the relationship is not great and the two are friends yesterday while out for a walk she said to me she is not interested in me is she only saying this coz im in a relationship and they are friends im lost coz she texts me everyday and get on so well we flirt etc can someone advise me please:rolleyes: Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 You have a GF. Before you even think about another woman have the courtesy to break up with your present GF. This other woman has point blank told you that she is not interested in you romantically. Why are you choosing to believe rumors that you heard 3rd hand rather than the source herself? Moreover, as your present GF's friend, I would sincerely hope that she has enough respect for her friend not to go stealing her BF. If she is that type of home wrecker / BF-stealer, why would you want to date someone with so little integrity? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 You can't go by what her friends say. She has told you she is not interested in you and that is her decision. Don't be that guy who tries to date his girlfriend's friend! People will all hate you for that and have to choose sides and everything. Link to post Share on other sites
sweetgirl75 Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 hi all i have this friend and we spend alot of time together i know she likes me more dan a friend coz her friends have told me so. i have a girlfriend but the relationship is not great and the two are friends yesterday while out for a walk she said to me she is not interested in me is she only saying this coz im in a relationship and they are friends im lost coz she texts me everyday and get on so well we flirt etc can someone advise me please:rolleyes: First of all you have a girlfriend. She needs to be treated with respect and if you feel you need to break up have the talk you need to with her. As for her friend it will cause a huge fight between friends because friends don't touch each other's guys at least good friends don't. The friends who say she likes you may be lying just to get crap started. If she tells you she is not interested believe her. Women as well as men can tell someone they are not interested. She might be playing mind games with you. Link to post Share on other sites
missdixie3333 Posted May 11, 2017 Share Posted May 11, 2017 So, if things are bad enough in your relationship that you're already reaching for another...just break up. Don't create drama. Also, you're setting yourself up for trouble with a friend of your present girlfriend. I don't know why guys think it's wrong to date women their guy friends have dated (so called 'bro-code'), but they're okay with pursuing women that are friends with their girlfriends. It's tacky and sad. And this woman is no friend to your girlfriend if she's texting you like this. This will most likely bite you in the ass- it's easy to surmise she'll start texting your friends the same way. You should address why you're looking outside the relationship first. Get that settled and then move on- preferably with someone that has a bit more respect for relationships and herself because what comes around goes around. Link to post Share on other sites
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