Anyone else attracted to wealthy/semi-wealthy guys?

[NLNJ6200]

I am a 17 yr old gay guy and I've been like this ever since I could remember lol. It's just something about them. Their designer clothes and taste in expensive luxuries that really turns me on.

 

I am far from wealthy but my boyfriend is semi-wealthy and omg seeing him in designer outfits is such a turn on. He is so hot already but add in designer outfits and Louis Vuitton and omg he is much hotter!!

 

I am certainly not after him for his money. In fact, I feel weird accepting expensive gifts from him. He insists yet I still feel bad taking stuff from him, even though he can well afford it.

 

It's just his taste in fashion and wealth that turns me on, almost like he is a fashion accessory himself. But even if he wasn't loaded with money I'd still love him 100%. It's just a great bonus that makes him even sexier to me.

 

Anyone else feel this way too? Write your opinions below!

[mercy]

H's officers uniform really turns me on. He'd take me to fancy places to eat, I was impressed but also a vegan so yeah pass the salad.

 

Just such a gentleman I fell in love the moment I saw him. He was settled in his career, older than me, I had my own money but still he impressed me. Out of uniform he dressed to the nines, still does. Me? I'm in yoga gear till he says lets go somewhere.

[d0nnivain]

Designer clothes does not mean he's wealthy. Truth wealth includes things like real estate & investments.

 

 

Wearing designer clothes or driving a flashy car could mean someone wastes money on frivolous things but that is what teenaged boys are supposed to do. Your attraction is to the superficial which is not a great criteria for judging a person or a proper foundation for a relationship but at 17 that is not a huge problem. Just change your criteria to more meaningful things like values by the time you are in your mid 20s.

 

 

Remember buying stuff you can't afford on credit does not make you wealthy. It makes you a fool.

[CptInsano]

Designer clothes does not mean he's wealthy. Truth wealth includes things like real estate & investments.

 

Aside from the fact that "old money" looks awfully conservative. I have a few friends who never had to work a day in their lives, and I had to take them shopping so they would wear something decent. Why would they care? They never had anything to prove, ever.

[King Bowls]

I am a 17 yr old gay guy and I've been like this ever since I could remember lol. It's just something about them. Their designer clothes and taste in expensive luxuries that really turns me on.

 

I am far from wealthy but my boyfriend is semi-wealthy and omg seeing him in designer outfits is such a turn on. He is so hot already but add in designer outfits and Louis Vuitton and omg he is much hotter!!

 

I am certainly not after him for his money. In fact, I feel weird accepting expensive gifts from him. He insists yet I still feel bad taking stuff from him, even though he can well afford it.

 

It's just his taste in fashion and wealth that turns me on, almost like he is a fashion accessory himself. But even if he wasn't loaded with money I'd still love him 100%. It's just a great bonus that makes him even sexier to me.

 

Anyone else feel this way too? Write your opinions below!

 

 

People with "tastes in wealth" invest their money. They save to invest. Does he do that? Blowing money on expensive clothes to appear wealthy (or even if he really does have genuine interest in such things) is not a trait of someone who has "tastes in wealth."

 

Since he's your partner, why don't you tell him to invest money into maybe a capital appreciation fund? You'll be far better off doing that than "buying expensive gifts" and buying "designer outfits."

 

Tell him to act his wage.

[cominghome]

Hmm...

 

Okay, my situation is very different from yours. I'm a 29 year old woman, and pretty established, especially for my age, so I am attracted to men who are also established and mature. Consequently, it means men who can handle themselves and have worked for a lot of success that has come their way in their lives. So most men I've dated are extremely well-off.

 

I am a very stylish woman. However, some of the most well-off men I've dated wear a t-shirt, jeans and a hoodie. Have no style-sense, but are still very emotionally and physically attractive to me. Others I've dated know how to dress well, which then is just the cherry on top for me. It doesn't add too much to their appeal even though I think it would've, maybe 5-10 years ago.

 

The ones I've dated that are best-dressed, tend to be problematic. They have had some sort of ego-centric issues which actually makes me less attracted to them.

 

Obviously, just my experience, but I find that I'm most attracted to the mindset of a man who knows what he's doing with his life, and the wealth is definitely secondary.