My fiancé broke up with me 3 months before our wedding. [UPDATED]

[Tiga]

Thank you,

 

Tou guys are absolutely right. This guy doesnt deserve for me took look at him and definitely not answer his texts and phone calls. He used me in every possible eay and walked over me like a piece of carpet.

 

I feel strong, I think it is sinking in that it is over for good. I dont want to ever let him back in my life. What he did was cruel and ruthless, he showed no remorse.

 

**** him and his family. Sorry, but thats the truth.

 

Thank you all for the support and opinion. I deserve better... wayyyyy better!

 

He will regret this for the rest of his life and I hope he does! Every tear I shed for him I hipe him and his family get what they deserve. That sounds rough but an eye for an eye. I resent him.

[preraph]

You know, maybe if he actually has consequences for what he did, he'll build a little resentment for his parents and grow up and stop letting them govern his life. But that's probably still a ways down the road. I'm proud of you for staying strong. You get to leave with your dignity by not letting him in again. You get to have ethics intact. He's the one that has to flounder around now and try to find someone his parents would marry.

[Tiga]

I had a good day today, one of my friends asked me if I wanted to meet with her for lunch and I said yes. When I got there 6 other friends were there and they surprised me. We had lunch and coffee, it was nice. I am so thankful for them.

 

Later I went to the gym and for dinner I went out with one of my good friends.

 

So I was out and about. He did not reach out. He is with the people that turned him against me and most likely made sure he didn't break down.

 

I did not cry today. I was strong.

 

Later in the am hours I missed my dog and shed a few tears. He was so selfish he even took the dog. He tried to play games and manipulate me even with the dog.

 

I feel hatred towards hi,, I feel bitter, when I come to the realization of what he actually did. It's not normal. He is not a human, he is a monster the devil.

When I think about how he asked for material things and what Inwas taking with me and hour or so after the break up. He has no heart, he has a black hole.

 

I moved here with two boxes, started from zero again, sacrificed so much and for him to treat me like a used up rag.

 

I can't believe him, I don't know who I was living with for 3 years, who did I love for 6? He had poison running through his veins, he was poisoned by them. It's like he was in a cult. Brainwashed to the max, saw me as his worst enemy. Went from loving me so much to seeing me as an enemy.

 

 

I am starting to hate him, When Imthink of him and the things he did Imfeel sick, I want to vomit. I feel bitter and I hate his guts. This was a traumatic experience. This was one of the worst things that ever happened in my life.

 

 

But I am strong, I moved out, found an apartment, have my own job and car. I have family and friends. I have a lot of friends I met here he has none and has been here longer then I have.

 

It shows what kind of person you are when you have no one coming tony our wedding. His parents had no one and the few people he invited "couldn't make it". You have to gif respect in order to receive it they have none.

 

What stage of the healing process is hatred?

[Maldives]

I had a good day today, one of my friends asked me if I wanted to meet with her for lunch and I said yes. When I got there 6 other friends were there and they surprised me. We had lunch and coffee, it was nice. I am so thankful for them.

 

Later I went to the gym and for dinner I went out with one of my good friends.

 

So I was out and about. He did not reach out. He is with the people that turned him against me and most likely made sure he didn't break down.

 

I did not cry today. I was strong.

 

Later in the am hours I missed my dog and shed a few tears. He was so selfish he even took the dog. He tried to play games and manipulate me even with the dog.

 

I feel hatred towards hi,, I feel bitter, when I come to the realization of what he actually did. It's not normal. He is not a human, he is a monster the devil.

When I think about how he asked for material things and what Inwas taking with me and hour or so after the break up. He has no heart, he has a black hole.

 

I moved here with two boxes, started from zero again, sacrificed so much and for him to treat me like a used up rag.

 

I can't believe him, I don't know who I was living with for 3 years, who did I love for 6? He had poison running through his veins, he was poisoned by them. It's like he was in a cult. Brainwashed to the max, saw me as his worst enemy. Went from loving me so much to seeing me as an enemy.

 

 

I am starting to hate him, When Imthink of him and the things he did Imfeel sick, I want to vomit. I feel bitter and I hate his guts. This was a traumatic experience. This was one of the worst things that ever happened in my life.

 

 

But I am strong, I moved out, found an apartment, have my own job and car. I have family and friends. I have a lot of friends I met here he has none and has been here longer then I have.

 

It shows what kind of person you are when you have no one coming tony our wedding. His parents had no one and the few people he invited "couldn't make it". You have to gif respect in order to receive it they have none.

 

What stage of the healing process is hatred?

 

Ur where I'm at.it goes back and forth Tiga.

 

I had some miracles happen today no joke after I prayed to god. Because we were all finishing at the same time tonight I cldnt handle seeing them together but God came thru amazing day full of blessings he shielded me from pain. Amazing syncronicitys all day and especially wen it counted I got stuck on a call at the end of my shift and that allowed me to not see em or bump into em. Not sure what was going on wth them she seemed moody and didn't go down to where he wss sitting and thanks to god he was sitting way away from me and the ex. Want a relief looks like me n u both had a day off from the pain lol.

[Redhead14]

I had a good day today, one of my friends asked me if I wanted to meet with her for lunch and I said yes. When I got there 6 other friends were there and they surprised me. We had lunch and coffee, it was nice. I am so thankful for them.

 

Later I went to the gym and for dinner I went out with one of my good friends.

 

So I was out and about. He did not reach out. He is with the people that turned him against me and most likely made sure he didn't break down.

 

I did not cry today. I was strong.

 

Later in the am hours I missed my dog and shed a few tears. He was so selfish he even took the dog. He tried to play games and manipulate me even with the dog.

 

I feel hatred towards hi,, I feel bitter, when I come to the realization of what he actually did. It's not normal. He is not a human, he is a monster the devil.

When I think about how he asked for material things and what Inwas taking with me and hour or so after the break up. He has no heart, he has a black hole.

 

I moved here with two boxes, started from zero again, sacrificed so much and for him to treat me like a used up rag.

 

I can't believe him, I don't know who I was living with for 3 years, who did I love for 6? He had poison running through his veins, he was poisoned by them. It's like he was in a cult. Brainwashed to the max, saw me as his worst enemy. Went from loving me so much to seeing me as an enemy.

 

 

I am starting to hate him, When Imthink of him and the things he did Imfeel sick, I want to vomit. I feel bitter and I hate his guts. This was a traumatic experience. This was one of the worst things that ever happened in my life.

 

 

But I am strong, I moved out, found an apartment, have my own job and car. I have family and friends. I have a lot of friends I met here he has none and has been here longer then I have.

 

It shows what kind of person you are when you have no one coming tony our wedding. His parents had no one and the few people he invited "couldn't make it". You have to gif respect in order to receive it they have none.

 

What stage of the healing process is hatred?

 

Hatred is part of the anger stage. Channel that emotion into something positive for yourself -- go out and buy yourself something you've always wanted. Focus on setting up your new home and making it just the way you want it, all yours and all you

[Purepony]

He's not reaching out.. if he does it'll be 6 months after and it will probably be a breadcrumb... don't respond will only set you back

[preraph]

I had a good day today, one of my friends asked me if I wanted to meet with her for lunch and I said yes. When I got there 6 other friends were there and they surprised me. We had lunch and coffee, it was nice. I am so thankful for them.

 

Later I went to the gym and for dinner I went out with one of my good friends.

 

So I was out and about. He did not reach out. He is with the people that turned him against me and most likely made sure he didn't break down.

 

I did not cry today. I was strong.

 

Later in the am hours I missed my dog and shed a few tears. He was so selfish he even took the dog. He tried to play games and manipulate me even with the dog.

 

I feel hatred towards hi,, I feel bitter, when I come to the realization of what he actually did. It's not normal. He is not a human, he is a monster the devil.

When I think about how he asked for material things and what Inwas taking with me and hour or so after the break up. He has no heart, he has a black hole.

 

I moved here with two boxes, started from zero again, sacrificed so much and for him to treat me like a used up rag.

 

I can't believe him, I don't know who I was living with for 3 years, who did I love for 6? He had poison running through his veins, he was poisoned by them. It's like he was in a cult. Brainwashed to the max, saw me as his worst enemy. Went from loving me so much to seeing me as an enemy.

 

 

I am starting to hate him, When Imthink of him and the things he did Imfeel sick, I want to vomit. I feel bitter and I hate his guts. This was a traumatic experience. This was one of the worst things that ever happened in my life.

 

 

But I am strong, I moved out, found an apartment, have my own job and car. I have family and friends. I have a lot of friends I met here he has none and has been here longer then I have.

 

It shows what kind of person you are when you have no one coming tony our wedding. His parents had no one and the few people he invited "couldn't make it". You have to gif respect in order to receive it they have none.

 

What stage of the healing process is hatred?

 

Well, anger/hatred is definitely a step in the healing process.

 

I'm so glad to hear your friend rallied around you. That will help so much. And you are on your own two feet. And in a year if you want you can move out and get a house or place where you can have a couple of dogs. There are so many who need someone to save them from death row. But it's true you need a back yard for them with a dog door in and out both to keep them safe and happy but also because it's much easier for you to not have to walk them all the time. And two is better than one because they need that pack and have less anxiety when you're away and play with each other.

 

Anyway, that's something to look forward to. In fact, a GREAT place to meet guys is the dog park or just out walking the dogs.

 

Since you're in an apartment, you might enjoy a bird feeder and/or hummingbird feeder outside your window.

[Tiga]

So I did not go back and look at his parents profile via Facebook. My mom still had them as friends and his brother. My mom logged into FB and saw that his parents took a selfie cheering with two glasses of vine on May 22. This was our planned wedding day.

 

They did that on purpose to show they are celebrating that they "won". My mom blocked both of them from Facebook but kept his brother. Since the brother did nothing wrong as far as we know.

 

 

Wow what cruel people they are. They are celebrating someone's pain and misery including their son's. Those are not true parents, they only want it their way and to control and manipulate people.

 

I feel bad for him, his parents are the worst. How can he not see? Who does **** like that? I am glad she blocked them because I never want to hear or see their faces again.

[Maldives]

Almost as cruel as my ex.im guilty of this but try and stay away from his news and side of things

[Tiga]

He doesnt have a fb and doesnt know that they are posting **** like this. His dad posts all the cruel quotes.

[Purepony]

Tyga their done this is not a war. Don't look at it that way, go after the house if you have your name on the title because eventually that will come up someday and the worst part is you might be in a relationship by then so you don't want that drama resurfacing later (trust me that happened to me)

 

Second the pain, the hate and the superior feelings will eventually settle and you will be back to being you but that could take over 6 months just don't look at it as a race. If you want to race buy a jaguar f type !

 

Third sounds like you are settling well just stay away from social media. I doubt his 40-50-60 year old parents are out to get you .... yes it's possible they didn't like you or who knows but either way don't waste time on these people.

 

Fourth I had 6 years invested in a girl I fell out of love with so I know the turbulence and damage of the relationship... I still have a 60,000 car that she's driving around with my name on it but I agreed to co sign and I keep my word so I let her have it. Be glad there's no kids involved because it could be a lot worse ....

 

Last thing I'm not saying he's happy but going by my gut and what you've said he's okay probably not happy because this is always difficult no matter what side you are on but he's okay and will be okay just as you will too

 

I hope you have a great day tyga because you deserve a great day )

[Tiga]

Tyga their done this is not a war. Don't look at it that way, go after the house if you have your name on the title because eventually that will come up someday and the worst part is you might be in a relationship by then so you don't want that drama resurfacing later (trust me that happened to me)

 

Second the pain, the hate and the superior feelings will eventually settle and you will be back to being you but that could take over 6 months just don't look at it as a race. If you want to race buy a jaguar f type !

 

Third sounds like you are settling well just stay away from social media. I doubt his 40-50-60 year old parents are out to get you .... yes it's possible they didn't like you or who knows but either way don't waste time on these people.

 

Fourth I had 6 years invested in a girl I fell out of love with so I know the turbulence and damage of the relationship... I still have a 60,000 car that she's driving around with my name on it but I agreed to co sign and I keep my word so I let her have it. Be glad there's no kids involved because it could be a lot worse ....

 

Last thing I'm not saying he's happy but going by my gut and what you've said he's okay probably not happy because this is always difficult no matter what side you are on but he's okay and will be okay just as you will too

 

I hope you have a great day tyga because you deserve a great day )

 

 

 

I signed the title over to him. I couldn't take it anymore, the pressure. I didn't take him to court or hire an attorney. I settled for way less money that I should have gotten/put in. But I told him it's whatever and that its not about the money. He is so lucky that I have a good heart and did not fight it out. I couldn't do that to him because I still loved him and even if I didn't I couldn't because he meant something to me at some point. Let me ask you, did you fall out of love in a day? Because he tried to claim that. The night before he wanted to elope and when I refused to cancel my wedding because of his parents the following day he came back saying its not my parents its me, my feelings changed. And i love u but I have this gut feeling. He kept going back and forth about his feelings because he knew that I didn't believe it and knew it was all his parents.

 

At the end our last conversation he told me he loved me and that I was his best friend. He kissed my hands and forehead seversl times and hugged me so tight.

[preraph]

He doesnt have a fb and doesnt know that they are posting **** like this. His dad posts all the cruel quotes.

 

Well, no one wants to be married into that family. How petty they are. Mean and I'm guessing he doesn't WANT to see stuff like that because he knows he doesn't have the spine to stand up to them.

[Purepony]

I signed the title over to him. I couldn't take it anymore, the pressure. I didn't take him to court or hire an attorney. I settled for way less money that I should have gotten/put in. But I told him it's whatever and that its not about the money. He is so lucky that I have a good heart and did not fight it out. I couldn't do that to him because I still loved him and even if I didn't I couldn't because he meant something to me at some point. Let me ask you, did you fall out of love in a day? Because he tried to claim that. The night before he wanted to elope and when I refused to cancel my wedding because of his parents the following day he came back saying its not my parents its me, my feelings changed. And i love u but I have this gut feeling. He kept going back and forth about his feelings because he knew that I didn't believe it and knew it was all his parents.

 

At the end our last conversation he told me he loved me and that I was his best friend. He kissed my hands and forehead seversl times and hugged me so tight.

 

 

Yeah but now the problem is you probably won't be able to qualify for another home because of that open loan on your credit because your liable and it counts against your income but anyway

 

I'm sorry but you dropped the ball there

 

I feel out of love completely overnight but it was because of the several things she did that led up to that... you sound like you are more in love with him than my ex was with me . I read your list where you said you liked him because he was sweet and went to get the cleaners ?!? I mean wow

Try I would wash her car, gas it up, wax it, charge her o rent, gave her an office and that was I only a few months... doesn't include vacations etc

 

Think of a bucket filling up one drop at a time until it's full and spills , I've been away from her for 6 months and after a few bad months now I'm having too much.... so much I feel guilty but looking back I know I deserve it because I did put up with a lot of her crap

[Purepony]

He will always love you I mean it was 6 years ... I feel the same about my ex but I don't love her enough to stay with her and commit myself for the rest of my life

There's always that doubt and I had it for a long time, I would somehow bet he couldn't either

[Tiga]

He will always love you I mean it was 6 years ... I feel the same about my ex but I don't love her enough to stay with her and commit myself for the rest of my life

There's always that doubt and I had it for a long time, I would somehow bet he couldn't either

 

I see your point but I just don't believe that is what happened to him. He lost 15 lbs in 2 weeks after he said "we weren't meant to be together". He stressed so much, it was his parents, and I of course made him upset too by saying I won't cancel our wedding because of his parents.

 

He did not stop lovin me, I don't believe it. If that was the case he wouldn't be stressing so much and he wouldn't have cried and told me that he loved me at the end.

 

He was torn between us and me getting angry with him drove him to chose them. Plus they are very manipulative people so they kept filling his head.

 

 

I love him, I loved him for who he was inside. He was kind to me and respectful and loved me. He was caring. No he didn't spend money and take me on vacations no he didn't buy me all these clothes and shoes and spoil me. I loved him for him. But they made him think otherwise... Like how I was leaching him....I don't see how I was leaching if anyone was leaching it was your ex gf leaching you.

 

I worked shifts and paid half the rent, cooked, cleaned, did what I could when I had time. I paid when we went out to eat, I bought everything our dog needed, food, treats, hygiene and etc. I never asked him for a dollar. Hey said I was leaching him because he put the down payment on the house....that is not leaching...we were starting a family together we loved each other....and he kept the house. I did not want anything from his down payment or his share. I let him keep the house and the dog, even though I am so hurt over the dog.

 

They made it seem like I was leaching because I asked for the amount of money I put in to the home. They said I do t have a right to get that because if it wasn't for him putting the down payment down I wouldn't even have had a home I would be renting.

 

 

But they forgot... IF IT WASNT FOR HIM I WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN JOB LESS FOR SEVEN MONTH, I WOULD HAVE NOT PAID RENT AT MY PARENTS HOME AND WOULD HAVE SAVED THREE TIMES THE AMOUNT OF MONEY I GOT BACK FRIM THE HOME FROM HIM. I WOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO PUT A GREAT DOWN PAYMENT DOWN FOR MY OWN HOME NOW. I LOST A LOT. HE DIDINT LOSE ****. HE WILL REALISE THIS INE DAY!

[Purepony]

I see your point but I just don't believe that is what happened to him. He lost 15 lbs in 2 weeks after he said "we weren't meant to be together". He stressed so much, it was his parents, and I of course made him upset too by saying I won't cancel our wedding because of his parents.

 

He did not stop lovin me, I don't believe it. If that was the case he wouldn't be stressing so much and he wouldn't have cried and told me that he loved me at the end.

 

He was torn between us and me getting angry with him drove him to chose them. Plus they are very manipulative people so they kept filling his head.

 

 

I love him, I loved him for who he was inside. He was kind to me and respectful and loved me. He was caring. No he didn't spend money and take me on vacations no he didn't buy me all these clothes and shoes and spoil me. I loved him for him. But they made him think otherwise... Like how I was leaching him....I don't see how I was leaching if anyone was leaching it was your ex gf leaching you.

 

I worked shifts and paid half the rent, cooked, cleaned, did what I could when I had time. I paid when we went out to eat, I bought everything our dog needed, food, treats, hygiene and etc. I never asked him for a dollar. Hey said I was leaching him because he put the down payment on the house....that is not leaching...we were starting a family together we loved each other....and he kept the house. I did not want anything from his down payment or his share. I let him keep the house and the dog, even though I am so hurt over the dog.

 

They made it seem like I was leaching because I asked for the amount of money I put in to the home. They said I do t have a right to get that because if it wasn't for him putting the down payment down I wouldn't even have had a home I would be renting.

 

 

But they forgot... IF IT WASNT FOR HIM I WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN JOB LESS FOR SEVEN MONTH, I WOULD HAVE NOT PAID RENT AT MY PARENTS HOME AND WOULD HAVE SAVED THREE TIMES THE AMOUNT OF MONEY I GOT BACK FRIM THE HOME FROM HIM. I WOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO PUT A GREAT DOWN PAYMENT DOWN FOR MY OWN HOME NOW. I LOST A LOT. HE DIDINT LOSE ****. HE WILL REALISE THIS INE DAY!

 

 

I fee I've been in his position and his and his actions speak volumes !

He can suffer and lose 50-90 pounds that doesn't mean or guarantee it even has anything to do with you ... maybe he's working out ?

 

I firmly believe that someone else was involved or he met someone or even cheated because when people typically break up under these circumstance there's a dark cloud above and he thought this over I assure you because I did

 

I can relate I kiss my ex but I'm happier without her, I can see that we are in love but we are much better apart and yes you could be a hell of a catch just not the right one for him ... same as in my case I went out with a girl that was amazing last week but now I don't bother investing time if I don't see it

[Purepony]

Yeah you pulled for him a lot and I think deep down you are still making excuses for him... I've dated girls my family doesn't approve but guess what ? They accept them after a while because they know what they mean to me ..

 

Eventually maybe some day you'll figure it out but everything seemed planed on his end

[Tiga]

I fee I've been in his position and his and his actions speak volumes !

He can suffer and lose 50-90 pounds that doesn't mean or guarantee it even has anything to do with you ... maybe he's working out ?

 

I firmly believe that someone else was involved or he met someone or even cheated because when people typically break up under these circumstance there's a dark cloud above and he thought this over I assure you because I did

 

I can relate I kiss my ex but I'm happier without her, I can see that we are in love but we are much better apart and yes you could be a hell of a catch just not the right one for him ... same as in my case I went out with a girl that was amazing last week but now I don't bother investing time if I don't see it

 

 

I know why it looks like that from the outside but there is/was no one else. It was all bis prents. The guys disint do anything or go anywhere. He sat at home watching movie and playing video games. I know it aounds deceiving and unexplainable but he did this because of them. He has a unexplainable attachment to his parents. We don't understand it because we don't have his mentality.

 

He wanted to elope the night before because they were not changing their minds. All I know is he will be back in my life, and if I still love him and he stands up to them I will forgive him. I believe I would because our relationship was really good. We were both family oriented and had no major issues. The only issue was his parents last two weeks before we broke up.

 

 

Only time will tell. I just pray to god to lead me in the right direction.

[Purepony]

Are there more like you ?

Do you have any single friends haha Because I'd kill to find someone who looks at things that way . I know I wouldn't forgive someone who put me they something like that....

 

Your hope is almost inspiring

[Tiga]

Maybe I am just confused, maybe I am just so hurt and shocked that I can't think straight. I just feel like the way things played out for me will never make sense and I will never understand. It doesn't add up. The guy was drawing sketches of how our favors could look three days before the break up. He did it all by himself. I never asked him to do it plus the type of favors was all his idea.

 

For him to ask me to elope with him a day before he ended it. It doesn't make sense.

 

Did I push him away by acting like I was "done" the night before. I gotta admit that a few times during our arguments and fights over our 6 year relationship. I would be so angry and upset that I would walk out or start packing (twice) because at the moment I couldn't take the pain or whatever I felt at the time. I think I over did it, I admit. I used to be very hot headed but I have gotten so much better. I never really ever wanted to leave him I think my ego was hurt and my response was just to go. I never wanted to do that though, but my anger got the best of me. I was hurt before him and fold myself that I will never allow a guy to mistreat me in anyway. I guess it was my ego and I couldn't control my emotions. The crazy part was this only happened towards the people I love, if I felt hurt by them. I never acted like that towards any friends or other random people.

 

I told him that night no I wont cancel our wedding, if you dont come then me and you will be over and that he needed to let me know so I can look for an apartment to move into.

 

I was angry, angry and upset that he couldn't say i love you and idc who is at the wedding me and you will get married regardlesa. He did not say that he did say that marriage is for us and it shouldn't matter how many guests are tbere. I agreed but we bad agreed prior on the guest list and it was only 20 people.

 

Idk I feel guilty that I pushed him away with my temper and anger. With my ,,"im leaving" attitude.he maybe just got tires of it.

 

I tried to leave twice during our 6 years and he stopped me everytime. The other time I wanted to just get out of the house for the time eing and he stopped me.

 

But he knew I loved him, I never was going to leave him. Idk why I acted so stupid and threatened to leave. Idk. I wish I can take it back.

[Maldives]

Don't be too hard on ureself Tiga. Remember at the end of the day he decided to leave not u. U were in it for better or worse u didn't do anything wrong by packing ur bags to leave. And that's not why he left from wat I've read u made it pretty clear it was his parents.

 

Take a deeeeeep breath and just try and relax..

[Tiga]

Yea theymade the cake and I ices it. Instead of being calm and showing him i love him I flipped. I flupped because they wanted to tear us apart and cancel our wedsing that we planned and it was my dream.

 

If I ever get married it will be on the beach as I always wanted. He couldn't stand up to them and fulfill that for me. He wanted to but they did not allow it. I just did not want to look back and regret not having a wedding day that i wanted. It was affordable, it was small bit it would have been special. I know its not about where and how big your wedding is and that it is about love. But if we are capable of doing something why not do it? I wanted to have great pics of us to show our children and grandchildren. I wanted a great memory, a memory that would last forever knowing that i got to marry my best friend and that he had my back and wanted to make me happy. I wanted him to be a king to a queen, and show me he loved me by standing up to whomever. He broke under pressure. Deep down I k kw he will be back, idk why I can't explain it. I still feel like he is my destiny.

 

Am I out of my mind?

[Maldives]

No ur not out of ur mind Tiga, usually our feelings are right.

 

The things uve seen and heard since the break up are painting a picture.

 

I've been married and like u it was small cost less than 5 grand back in 2003 we had about 90 people and honestly it was one o the best days I've ever experienced it's all about u guys it was magic. We had black and white photography done 35 bux a head and a great venue.

 

Our honeymoon was in the Maldives and Singapore. Magical experience the runway is right in the middle of the Indian Ocean landing on a thin strip in the ocean Google it it freaked me out as we exited the plane I cld hear the waves crashing. We stayed in a bungalow over beautiful crystal clear waters for 7 nights. I remember seeing flying fish at night and feeding these beautiful tropical fish. We didn't work out unfortunately but the wedding and that always stays as happy memories I loved being married. Ur time will come to shine im positive of it.

[olivetree]

Tiga,

 

I think it's a positive thing that you are seeing that there are things you could have done differently as well.

 

I have to agree with your ex that the wedding day is not what is important.

It's the love you share together.

 

That may have been why he called it off, not just his parents.

He may have thought your priorities were all wrong and you weren't willing to compromise, and by the time you did, it was too late.

 

Anyway, I'm not trying to make you feel bad or say that this was your fault.

But maybe some time apart will do you both well so you can both gain perspective and learn new ways to deal with conflict.

 

However, if he really is willing to to be so influenced by his parents and that is what this is really about, he is not the man you want anyway.