Author Tiga Posted October 24, 2018 Author Share Posted October 24, 2018 After several unanswered texts he called me and then I picked up. 1.5 years later.. This time he called once, I didin’t pick up. He called again I honestly thought the worst and that maybe something was wrong so I picked up. It’s been over 1.5 years and now he calls me. About 6 weeks ago he sent me a message if you see my post from earlier asking me about some mail. I never responded to the text and have been in no contact for 1.5 years. I answered “hello” and he said ”heyyyy” and i said “who is this?” Even though I knew who it was. He said “ what you don’t recognize my voice anymore” so I said “ please don’t call this number ever again” & hung up. & I ended up sending him a message immediately saying “FYI if you get any more mail of mine (since he inquired 6 weeks ago if I wanted him to send me my benefits mail) please forward it to ....(my work address) “ since he knows where I work. He responded and said “ ok will do and I was just checking to see how you are and hope you’re well, take care” Now I’m feeling so confused, mix of feeling. Angry, curious, hopeful, just everything. What does heeee want???? Link to post Share on other sites
Normm Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 Now I’m feeling so confused, mix of feeling. Angry, curious, hopeful, just everything. What does heeee want???? Unfortunately it appears you had the opportunity to find out and chose another path which pretty much shut the door on determining his motivations. You want wild guesses? He was lonely, bored, reminiscing and looking to share a few memories, maybe he was even a bit drunk. Or, he was looking to see if there was a chance at reconcilation because he realized the grass isn't greener. Does it matter? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Tiga Posted October 24, 2018 Author Share Posted October 24, 2018 Unfortunately it appears you had the opportunity to find out and chose another path which pretty much shut the door on determining his motivations. You want wild guesses? He was lonely, bored, reminiscing and looking to share a few memories, maybe he was even a bit drunk. Or, he was looking to see if there was a chance at reconcilation because he realized the grass isn't greener. Does it matter? He doesn’t drink Sinai know he wasn’t drunk and I know he was driving home from work it was 4 pm and I could hear he was in a vehicle. Idk if it matters, it shouldn’t but I think I still love him. He reached out a few weeks ago as well, I never responded. I just feel like he will do it again. & idk what to do Link to post Share on other sites
Normm Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 If you want answers then I suggest you don't tell him never to call you again because he just might think you mean it. Link to post Share on other sites
sutsie Posted October 25, 2018 Share Posted October 25, 2018 Wow. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I just got dumped exactly a month ago out of the blue by my girlfriend of over 3 years. Just got back from an amazing disney trip. I hit a little bit of a rut because I'm stuck in school without a job currently at 25. She dumped me on her 21st birthday a couple months later saying the usual "not in love with you anymore" blah blah bull****. I could not imagine what you're going through and unfortunately I don't have any advice, but I truly am sorry for what you're going through and I know its going to work out for you. Your situation is far worse given the scenario, but thankfully you don't have to deal with those POS parents anymore of his. Hang in there. Link to post Share on other sites
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