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Ratchetman1982

So I'm a bad husband. I didn't mean to be, but I didn't try to stop it. About a year ago, I ended up in an affair with a coworker. We would have lunch or drinks occasionally, but it was usually just business. One drunken evening ended with us sleeping together. I should have seen it coming. Maybe I did. Maybe I wanted someone to crave me. My wife had stopped exhibiting passion towards me a while before that. We would still have sex every other weekend, but it wasn't passion.

 

After about 6 months of the affair, we both agreed that it wasn't fair to our families and it could only lead to disaster. We decided on one last fling. The major problem was the hotel we chose was also the one my wife's sister was at for a conference. She saw us and approached me. My coworker fled, as she should. Here is where I really get into trouble. My sister in law won't rat me out, if I sleep with her. Every guy's dream, right? She's sexy and funny, but way off limits. Well, I don't want my wife to find out, so I agree.

 

Now I'm sleeping with my wife's sister. So much worse than a normal affair. I'm afraid that if I try to break it off, she will rat me out. I love the affair, which is super selfish. I also don't want to ruin my family. What on earth can I do?

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Mrs. John Adams

Easy answer.

 

You confess to your wife, accept responsibility for your choice to cheat and tell her what your sister in law has propositioned and that you took her up on it

 

It's the only choice you have because if you continue to cheat with the sil.. she will eventually spill the beans and it is much better coming from you than her.

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Now I'm sleeping with my wife's sister. So much worse than a normal affair. I'm afraid that if I try to break it off, she will rat me out. I love the affair, which is super selfish. I also don't want to ruin my family. What on earth can I do?

 

Yeah, that's a pickle. Damned if you confess, damned if SIL does. Is the SIL married? If so, you can threaten to tell her husband if she doesn't back off, and that could be the end of it all. If not, then ... I guess that choice is up to you. SIL may never say a thing, because doing so would wreck her relationship with her sister, for sure. You can't be any worse off if she tells, or if you do. Tell, and face the music, or say nothing, and see what happens. You might get away with it, but it's not likely.

 

 

Assuming it IS revealed, how would you want that to happen? Is there any chance of managing the fallout, either way?

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You can get away with the first affair, but with your sister in law ??? This is headed toward a disaster. Use some brain please.

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You can get away with the first affair, but with your sister in law ??? This is headed toward a disaster. Use some brain please.

 

Preferably the brain upstairs and not downstairs.

 

Sorry to ask... but is this for real???

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Seems pretty safe I mean its not like the family completely breaks up if it come out. I am sure the kids love their Aunt and have been to her place for holidays. Also if you have kids of your own its like half sibling/ half cousins. Aunt mom ?

 

 

;)

 

 

P.S. True story. My older brother had a thing for my MIL. At one point both he and MIL were both single. Nothing happened but It would have been complicated ....but heck it would have been all family.

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Doorstopper

Blackmailed for sex? I'm wondering if you have special talents that your wife told her sister or if you are packing a "monster" in your shorts.

 

It does sound like a bit of a fantasy. If not I feel sorry for your wife. You have destroyed both your marriage and her family. And of course her sister is a 4 letter word as well.

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Darren Steez

Be careful her sister doesn't tell her mother...then she might want some too..or her grandmother!! You could all have a threesome!

 

What a lucky guy!

 

Go tiger!!

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