Author Soap Posted August 5, 2005 Author Share Posted August 5, 2005 Originally posted by Neptune Whatcha think? I think the 50% of the human race that can answer this best has been completely silent on this matter. Oh sure, a few women have responded to this thread but they gave not one clue to answer the question. So ya see....what I say I stand by. Women have a much different system of communication. And part of that is not talking about it It's funny that you mention that because you'd think MEN would know how to answer this best (since we "supposedly" know what we want). But likewise, as a guy... I would never ask a womenfor dating advice. Why? Because no one knows what they want. Oh well... amerikajin, I actually think Men have it better in the sense that if a women is born ugly, then she's more or less doomed. But if we men are born "less gifted," we can still improve ourseleves to a great extent and get chicks. d'Arthez, I'm not trying to get the specific strategies that women use to get a particular man. I'm talking about an "general" thing that works on almost everyone. For example, the 70% waist to hip ratio is generally universally seen as the most attractive ratio. It may not satisfy EVERY SINGLE individual man on the face of the earth, but it's a pretty good start. So is there not a personality trait that MOST men would find attractive? It probably won't guarentee 100% succes, but it would be pretty darn close. -make love, not war- Link to post Share on other sites
amerikajin Posted August 5, 2005 Share Posted August 5, 2005 amerikajin, I actually think Men have it better in the sense that if a women is born ugly, then she's more or less doomed. But if we men are born "less gifted," we can still improve ourseleves to a great extent and get chicks. I do agree; it's a double-edged sword. I think that for women, it is more important that they have attractive looks. For men, it's important to have refined social skills. But in either case, you can't be lacking too much in either category. Link to post Share on other sites
loony Posted August 5, 2005 Share Posted August 5, 2005 Originally posted by Soap The point I'm trying to make is that even IF the girl was perfect (on the inside) in every way, all she could do to attract that 'special someone' is to sit there and start flashing some skin or cross her legs or whatever. She'll be at the whim of the men to pick up these signals. And even if they do, theres only a small chance they'lll act upon it (ie. approach her) She just have to smile and make eye contact with the guy she likes. If he likes her back he will try to approach her. That's it. It's very easy actually, you sit there and give your signals to the guy that you want. If he doesn't approach you he's either taken or you need to send some stronger signals like slapping him a bit to wake him up. Originally posted by Soap D'arthez, the problem with a girl being assertive is that society has clouded our midns with stereotypes and values. So if a girl approaches a man, many of them will get uneasy (I've seen this happen to both myself, and my friends). The solution? Remove our social conditioning! (harder said than done). I don't think that being an assertive girl will label you as a slut. It depends on how you do the approaching thing. Link to post Share on other sites
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