Brieanne Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 One of my friends (19, same age as me) told me that she's interested in a certain guy and would like to date him. But she already has a boyfriend that she's been dating for 8-9 months, and I thought they were happy with each other. They're planning to go to a bluegrass music festival next week where she will see the other guy. He's actually the banjo player for one of the bands that's playing, and he's single and only a few years older than her. She says she's going to try to flirt with him and get his attention, even his number, when her boyfriend is not looking (like if he goes to the restroom or buys something to eat). Should I say/do anything, or just stay out of it? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 Stay out of it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 Yeah, just stay out of it. I mean, she's only 19. She's eventually going to date other guys. If she goes about it in an unethical way, she's the one who will have to learn from it. She's just taking a shot at this guy without much possibility of him reciprocating anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
MountainGirl111 Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 When she told you that I would have probably said something to her like, "What about your boyfriend? I thought you guys were happy together...so why would you want to go after someone else?" If they are not dating exclusively, she can go after whomever she wants, I guess. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 if it were my friend i woudl advise her not to be deceitful and that i wanted no part in it or to be used as a cover ...because i would not do a cover or lie for her.... so i would appreciate it that she not ask me too be involved in her deceit..............deb Link to post Share on other sites
drifter777 Posted May 18, 2017 Share Posted May 18, 2017 Whatever you decide ..... don't turn your back on her... Link to post Share on other sites
Space Ritual Posted May 18, 2017 Share Posted May 18, 2017 It's your call...just be sure you can handle any consequence of remaining silent. Just remember that when she pulls the stunt and does cheat on her boyfriend that eventually he will find out. He will be able to eventually connect the dots as to who knew. So once it happens unless you want to be extremely uncomfortable every time you see this guy for the rest of your life you better hope you never see him again after that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MountainGirl111 Posted May 18, 2017 Share Posted May 18, 2017 I would also tell my friend to beware of banjo pickers. (haha) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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