rick2016 Posted May 24, 2017 Share Posted May 24, 2017 Just blowing off stream - my wife has to be the laziest person alive. Every day when I get home (she gets home around 3:30 and picks up the kids from the sitter while I get home around 6:00) she's sitting on her ass on the couch with her laptop or her phone playing games while the kids are watching an ipad. Doesn't matter if it's sunny and 80 outside - she's on the couch. Meanwhile the dishes are piled in the sink (she doesn't want me to touch them), crap is strewn around the house, laundry is piling up (she wants to do the laundry). She claims that she can't get the crap in the basement put away because she doesn't have time but she finds plenty of time to play her computer games. Meanwhile I'm always taking the kids outside, building Legos with them, reading to them. She doesn't exercise (she knows she's overweight and always says that she's starting a diet/exercise program on Monday, but that lasts about two days. Our sex life is non-existent - we haven't had sex in over a year (three times in five and a half years). Sex requires her to make an effort and we can't have that. I don't bug her about sex - I'm not going to make her do something she doesn't want to do. Vent over - think I'll go to bed so I can get up and take the kids out to play tomorrow while she sits in the house feeding her face and moving up to the next level in her game. The internet is addictive, and i think it comes before anything else..If she actually cares at all about her marriage...she needs to address her no sex issue... And if she does not want sex, why is she not helping you out...she is opening up a door for an affair, not that you would go there, but many have... and then the women cries and your the bad one.. Atleast helping shows she still has respect and cares about you.. Link to post Share on other sites
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