sweetgirl75 Posted May 21, 2017 Share Posted May 21, 2017 About a month ago I got into an argument with a so called fwb and I called him out on not checking on me when I was very ill. I was told delete his number. Well I have done really well at maintaining NC and respecting his wishes regarding not contacting him. Today I got news from my doctor I am needing a biopsy that I may have cancer. I don't have any ties to this guy as far as kids and I never met his family. I thought really loved him at one time and honestly he really probably really never cared about me. He would always disappear in the past when a health issue would arise and I never understood why he would be so mean. And when I was okay again he was okay again. I was taken by ambulance to the hospital and he was nowhere to be found. People take better care of their animals. He acted like he was taking care of me and all this crap and he did not even text me to see if I was okay. I was in the hospital almost three damn days. I did say some mean things because I was upset and I did lose my temper because I was hurt. Did I overreact? Part of me feels that I did. Part of me feels like I did the right thing by letting him get the hell out of my life. I feel so strong some days and some days I feel like crap and really down. Link to post Share on other sites
GeekLover Posted May 21, 2017 Share Posted May 21, 2017 I think you've done the right thing. I don't think you should feel bad about flying off the handle once. A lot of the times, when emotions are running high, we say things we don't mean and we act in a way we normally wouldn't. I think many of us have been there at one point or another. The fact that you recognize it wasn't the best way to handle your emotions says enough. As far as he's concerned, you're right to let him go. It sounds like he is incapable of providing any emotional support. Or, perhaps, since this was a FWB relationship, he was trying to maintain that status. Who knows? But, it sounds like that wasn't working for you, so it's probably best to move on, unless he's able to start providing more of what it is you need. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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