Author LovelyRose Posted June 8, 2017 Author Share Posted June 8, 2017 Yes I am definitely ahead of him. I already am in love with him. Are there certain rules about dating? Because I'm not following anything. I do and show what my heart wants. Without exactly telling him I love him. I totally agree with what you said. I know I won't get the result I want with how I'm approaching him. That's why I'm frustrated at myself as well. He already told me he likes me more now. He already said he won't forget me even when we don't talk or see each other. Of course nothing is for sure but I know he doesn't say things just to say it. I am the only woman he's involved with and his sister likes me, which is very important for him. So what's wrong with me? I lack patience He was the one who asked to date me. We both said we are not just for fun, but we are going to explore and see where this goes. But he was direct and honest to tell me that it takes him a while to be in a relationship. I asked what's your time frame usually. He said about 3 months. But I'm guessing that wasn't started by long distance and it was towards his ex wife. This is a guy who was with one woman since he was 21 for about 13 years who ended up cheating on him. He's been single for about 5 years now. So considering we are starting this long distance I know I'm in for a tough ride. But I am grateful he has no trust issue whatsoever towards me. I've been reading a lot of posts here and one thing I've read is that a mature, confident and secure partner does not need constant communication from their partner. I feel like that's what he is. Which I should consider a great thing. I barely said a word to him today and not too long ago he called me. Link to post Share on other sites
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