Jrugby7 Posted August 4, 2005 Share Posted August 4, 2005 Need some help with this one. I have posted in the past, my wife had a 1 time affair with a guy she coaches with. I found out and we are working on things. She has done everything i have asked her to do, she is very sorry and has been honest with me about everything. One on my stipulations for staying with her is that she can't ever coach with him again. Now to the problem. They had both already signed contracts to coach the next year before it happened. She has a meeting today with the Athletic Director, trying to get out of coaching. She does not want to air dirty laundry at work, but i won't be put through her coaching with him. I hate the situation because this is kind of out of her hands. If they say she has to coach, what do i do? I really do love her and i think we can work things out, but i can't live with her coaching with him. She has a great job and i wouldn't ask her to leave it. My feeling is that the school has 3 months to find an assistant JV coach, shouldn't be a problem. If they don't, and she coaches, I'm out. She **** the bed and now she has to sleep in it. Link to post Share on other sites
Debster Posted August 4, 2005 Share Posted August 4, 2005 Because she works with the guy I think she might be able to get out of it as they would avoid a potential sexual harrasment claim. I do think though, that she will have to confess to the affair. I agree, if she coaches with him, it will be very hard on you and I would consider it a dealbreaker as well. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jrugby7 Posted August 4, 2005 Author Share Posted August 4, 2005 I just got the call! The AD has let her out of the coaching contract and she won't be coaching with him! This shows me that she does want to work this out because i know how hard that was for her. She loves coaching and she really didn't want to get school involved. Link to post Share on other sites
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