iseestars Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 I got drunk and told this chick how I felt, and that wanted to come back to her house, and kiss her, and she told me to come back, but I ended up passing out and we hung out the next day and it was amazing(to me) we were laughing flirting and what not, and somehow it came to the booze and she said she didn't want to get with me because of my drinking, I told her too me she was worth it to me, and we had a little more time together and she didn't want me to leave either, I ended up liking a few pics on social media that night and the next day I texted her and nothing, I waited a few days and texted again nothing. I do not understand why she would ghost me when she was acting interested but when I showed a some interest I scared her off. Link to post Share on other sites
somanymistakes Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 maybe she was drunk when she showed interest, and changed her mind when she sobered up maybe she found it hard to let you down while you were right there in person, but isn't really into you, so once you're out of the way she can ignore you 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LivingWaterPlease Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 Seems to me she likes you, but as she said, she's not interested because of what she may consider to be a drinking issue. She's using her mind over following her emotions, not a bad way to live, imo. 7 Link to post Share on other sites
act00 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 Have you and this girl been dating at all, or has it been distant infatuation/crush until you got wasted enough to spill your guts? Did you know each other at all at parties or gatherings, mutual friends, or was this a first time meeting? Honestly, I can't really say. I'm a second chance type of girl, and one night of stupidity wouldn't kill it for me in a drinking situation, but I would proceed with caution, if this was a guy I was interested in or had been seeing. The future would be if this is a continued pattern of drinking to the point of passing out. It sounds as if she was interested enough to accept your self-invitation to go to her place, but then you went and passed out, and up until then, she had no idea how plowed you were. You were in her home, and she just made the best of the situation, and perhaps she mulled around in her head if she wanted to continue, but once you were away from her, it gave her a chance to think over what happened. She did express to you that she doesn't want to be with someone who drinks so heavily...do you know her in social circles and she sees this as a pattern? I'm thinking once you headed home, she had a chance to step back, re-evaluate, and decide you are just not the guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author iseestars Posted June 9, 2017 Author Share Posted June 9, 2017 Thanks for the input! Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 If you want to stop drinking, go to AA and text her and tell her you went to AA, however AA will get you to not date for awhile, but sometimes if you're in a relationship they will let it go. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author iseestars Posted June 9, 2017 Author Share Posted June 9, 2017 Aais not for everyone, n as much as I hate to say there really are other fish in the sea??? Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 AA is for everyone who actually wants to quit drinking. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 I got drunk and told this chick how I felt, and that wanted to come back to her house, and kiss her, and she told me to come back, but I ended up passing out and we hung out the next day and it was amazing(to me) we were laughing flirting and what not, and somehow it came to the booze and she said she didn't want to get with me because of my drinking, I told her too me she was worth it to me, and we had a little more time together and she didn't want me to leave either, I ended up liking a few pics on social media that night and the next day I texted her and nothing, I waited a few days and texted again nothing. I do not understand why she would ghost me when she was acting interested but when I showed a some interest I scared her off. First impressions are hard to overcome especially if they are bad ones. I would not continue to date a man who allowed himself to get so drunk as to pass out on a first date. Sorry. I don't have a problem with people who drink, I have a problem with people who don't know their limits and can't keep it together well enough to be present and focused. we had a little more time together and she didn't want me to leave either -- just because she was kinda enjoying the next day with you, doesn't mean she's forgotten about the night before. She entertained you a little the next day instead of just throwing you out to be "nice", I'd say. If it were me and I brought home a relative stranger to my house (which I would never do because I have a brain), who proceeded to pass out, I would have called a cab for them or picked up their phone, found a contact to call and ask them to come get their son, friend, brother . . . 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Arieswoman Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 iseestars, You really need to up your game. If you get drunk and hit on women then all you will end up with are women who are either also drunk, desperate or stupid. Take the lesson from this and run with it................ Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 You forgot the part when she said she didn't want you because of your drinking? What do you mean she is worth it to you? She is worth you stop drinking? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author iseestars Posted June 10, 2017 Author Share Posted June 10, 2017 I agree it might have some success for people, but it's not the only way. And I thought she was worth to stop drinking, it's not like I need it, but have been drinking to excess, and no I didn't forget what she said, I told her that and we continued to hang out have a good time, and when I had to leave she didn't want me to go, I thought good things and well it came to her ghosting me. **weird update** I seen her last night at restaurant And all she did was stare and smile? I just waved and kept on walking. Link to post Share on other sites
Author iseestars Posted June 10, 2017 Author Share Posted June 10, 2017 @redhead, I didn't not clarify she had a party the night before, and she didn't want me to leave then but I needed too because I was too drunk, I texted her how I felt and told her I wanted a kiss, to which she replied via text come back, I ended up passing out. She hit me up the next day and we hung out just me and her and it was more than being nice, well too me. Obviously Link to post Share on other sites
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