blacklightning Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 Hello, I am in need of some advice, ive been with my husband for 6 years and married for 3. We have a 4 month old at the moment. I have caught my husband in the past twice looking on dating sites, setting up profiles and looking at others but never chatting or meeting anyone. But I have just caught him again using another email with 6 dating site profiles. He denied it said was clearing out spam porn emails and those were old accounts and he threw his phone and broke it in rage when I told him about those emails. He also went and deleted the entire email account. I am passive enough I just let it go and continued with my night without another word after I mentioned it. He says I snoop his accounts and have no trust. Well this morning I really wasnt sure so I rechecked the accounts and he says has children so it is very recent..he has also has notifications on his phone now when someone logs into his email account. Trust issue or hiding something? He has recently started going to the gym and has started a new job is there an ego thing going on or am I just overreacting. Should I approach him about the notifications on his email and the dating accounts or just leave it alone and move on? He does have depression and low self esteem issues, till he got this new job. Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 Take it from someone who has been in your shoes and said nothing as to not be accused of snooping, his behavior will escalate and it will lead to actual cheating. Looking way way back I wish I'd had more of a backbone before things spiraled totally out of control. Link to post Share on other sites
reboot Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 You are not overreacting, and deep down you already know it. Link to post Share on other sites
aileD Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 You are not overreacting, and deep down you already know it. This........ Next time snoop but resist the urge to say anything until you have definitive proof Link to post Share on other sites
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