Do I Forgive My Ex Girlfriend

[lamby]

My now ex girlfriend broke up with me after a year in a relationship

we got on well together then one day we had a falling out and she

decided to call it a day over the telephone which I excepted thinking

she would contact me in a few days time , anyway she did not and

of cause I tried to contact her and get things back on , so to cut a

long story short we went out a couple of times over a month period

and things were going well I thought ,then after a month she called

it a day (I could not understand why but I had to let go).

After she called it a day I made no contact with her for about three

weeks (one of her friends said she could see us getting back together).

Well here goes after three weeks I sent her a text saying how are you

doing and she replied yes o.k hope your o.k too , so then I thought

maybe we might get back together again as she is missing me .

Then I find out off a friend that she is seeing someone else and still

is (three months now) a week after she finished with me , which

really hurt , so what happened next is that I went round to her

house had a row (but she still not tell me she was seeing someone) ,

so I thought my friend was telling me lies , then I was told she was

seen with her guy in a party . The next time I saw my ex girlfriend was

in a bar with her friend I was drunk and told her the most horrible

things anybody could say to a woman (not like me I was hurt )

Now only last week I saw my ex girlfriend in a bar and I went over

to her and said what will be will be (it hurt to say it) and we shook hands

and went our separate ways . I know this is stupid but I sent her a

text the next day and she replied to it nothing saying that I still cared

for her , then the other day she sends me a text asking if I was drunk

that night I sent the text , I said no and then asked her round to my

house for a meal which she declined in saying it could be tricky .

The question is do I still try to make contact with her as a friend

hoping she might come back to me or leave it .

[Deborah]

Please leave it alone. You have been acting very immaturely and she is apparently not interested in that. So just let her be and dont contact her anymore.

 

That's the best way for you to make her forget about your behaviour after the breakup.