caring guy Posted August 5, 2005 Share Posted August 5, 2005 Hi I know i've posted before about my situation & it in the post below, but i'm still up in arms as to what to do! Our relationship has been very rocky, she met another guy, who she says is a friend, as they've not known long, but have kissed & she declined sex because of me. She's on holiday now & i'm looking after her house, she doesn't know if it' s worth it to trust me i'll change, but she don't want to lose me in case i do! I've called her bluff & told her it's him or me, i won't even be her friend. She said she can';t imagine life without me. I'm not been a mugg & her see us both until she decides (or should i). We've been together 18 months & i'm 32, she 29, he is 21! She says he's mature for age & they are compatable, but she still calls me baby & loves me & kisses in texts. She says she's felt taken for granted, no romance, we have sex not make love. What should i do next week when she comes back from holls, i thought i'd get some roses, write a nice card, make some strawberry choc dipps & give her a nice massage without anything in return, whaddya think, i'd surprise her ! Link to post Share on other sites
ltomlinson81 Posted August 5, 2005 Share Posted August 5, 2005 How about you tell her how badly you want to be with her and promise to not neglect her anymore and that you'll do whatever it takes to make her happy and then DO JUST THAT! All that flowers and candy crap will only get you in the door. If you really care about this person, you should change the way you treat her to keep her around! I swear, sometimes men are idiots! Link to post Share on other sites
Author caring guy Posted August 5, 2005 Author Share Posted August 5, 2005 Yes! I will do that & as you say the "flowers & candy crap" has to be done to get me in the door, then i can do the do! She says romance is what she misses. A bunch of roses & a candlelit dinner are that! Link to post Share on other sites
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