CBASS Posted June 28, 1999 Share Posted June 28, 1999 My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1.5 years and everything was perfect. Then, a little more than a month ago we started hanging out with a guy friend of mine. He is attractive and really nice. My girlfriend has since developed a crush on him and has made it obvious to me. She gets really frustrated at me for no reason at all and then later explains how I have not done anything wrong. She says she just thinks sometimes that she is too young to be with one person the rest of her life. Then a week later she loves me again and explains she wants to marry me and raise a family with me and that she was just acting stupid the week before. Last night she pulled the same stunt again with her crush and I told her she has the freedom in the relationship to see other people, but we would have to break up. She said that she would not think about leaving me for any one....except for maybe this one friend of mine. I don't understand because as I said earlier everything was perfect until a month ago!!!!! What do I do? Please Help!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Adrienne Posted June 28, 1999 Share Posted June 28, 1999 My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1.5 years and everything was perfect. Then, a little more than a month ago we started hanging out with a guy friend of mine. He is attractive and really nice. My girlfriend has since developed a crush on him and has made it obvious to me. She gets really frustrated at me for no reason at all and then later explains how I have not done anything wrong. She says she just thinks sometimes that she is too young to be with one person the rest of her life. Then a week later she loves me again and explains she wants to marry me and raise a family with me and that she was just acting stupid the week before. Last night she pulled the same stunt again with her crush and I told her she has the freedom in the relationship to see other people, but we would have to break up. She said that she would not think about leaving me for any one....except for maybe this one friend of mine. I don't understand because as I said earlier everything was perfect until a month ago!!!!! What do I do? Please Help!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Adrienne Posted June 28, 1999 Share Posted June 28, 1999 It sounds to me like she doesn't consider your feelings by putting this in front of your face. What will happen if some other guy comes along and she develops a crush on him? You need to tell her either to stop these games or you are getting out of the relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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