Savannah2 Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 How many Fans of the office show out there who get my reference lol? I was watching re runs and realized that while in my own office affair I thought we were like the unrequited Jim and Pam love triangle... but looking back I realize we were more like Kelly and Ryan lol In my head I wanted him to be my Jim. But Jim would have never allowed five years of Pam secretly giving him blow jobs at work.... Wake up savannah. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
grassisorisntgreener Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 I love this <3 Link to post Share on other sites
Jemima1234 Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 How many Fans of the office show out there who get my reference lol? I was watching re runs and realized that while in my own office affair I thought we were like the unrequited Jim and Pam love triangle... but looking back I realize we were more like Kelly and Ryan lol In my head I wanted him to be my Jim. But Jim would have never allowed five years of Pam secretly giving him blow jobs at work.... Wake up savannah. I have been wondering how you are - does this mean its finally over? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Savannah2 Posted June 26, 2017 Author Share Posted June 26, 2017 Hi Jemima! Thank you for asking.. yes it's been over for months now. He just kept pushing me away, making excuses not to see me, and more push than pull. Eventually the pain and rejection from him took its toll and I knew I just couldn't continue doing this. He would never change so I needed to change . I started educating myself about love addiction and attachment trauma. The videos on youtube by Alan Robarge, a psychotherapist, are great for people like myself struggling with love addiction. Understanding the reasons why I accepted this relationship to start with really helped me get over him. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Jemima1234 Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 Hi Jemima! Thank you for asking.. yes it's been over for months now. He just kept pushing me away, making excuses not to see me, and more push than pull. Eventually the pain and rejection from him took its toll and I knew I just couldn't continue doing this. He would never change so I needed to change . I started educating myself about love addiction and attachment trauma. The videos on youtube by Alan Robarge, a psychotherapist, are great for people like myself struggling with love addiction. Understanding the reasons why I accepted this relationship to start with really helped me get over him. Amazing ? Well done you have really inspired me Link to post Share on other sites
rumblefish12 Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 Hi Jemima! Thank you for asking.. yes it's been over for months now. He just kept pushing me away, making excuses not to see me, and more push than pull. Eventually the pain and rejection from him took its toll and I knew I just couldn't continue doing this. He would never change so I needed to change . I started educating myself about love addiction and attachment trauma. The videos on youtube by Alan Robarge, a psychotherapist, are great for people like myself struggling with love addiction. Understanding the reasons why I accepted this relationship to start with really helped me get over him. I think the fact that you researched those issues is really huge. I'm going to check out those youtube videos. Thank you for sharing! Link to post Share on other sites
What_Did_I_Do Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 And so will I -thank you! Link to post Share on other sites
sandylee1 Posted June 29, 2017 Share Posted June 29, 2017 Great news to hear it's over Savannah and long may it last. Link to post Share on other sites
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