steenerz Posted August 6, 2005 Share Posted August 6, 2005 my bf has been in CA for a week and a half and is coming home wednesdya....the first week he was there we talked a lot, like a couple hours a day, he was staying with his grandparents and was bored (assuming)....now he has met up with his brother whom he hasn't seen in over a year (studying abroad), and is now staying with his aunt/uncle/cousin's family....ever since he's been there he's hardly called...can i call him? or should i leave him alone and let him have his fun? Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted August 6, 2005 Share Posted August 6, 2005 YES, of course call Him! maybe he is thinking , Wow i have to doo all the work and make all the calls...... i bet he would be thrilled with a call from you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author steenerz Posted August 6, 2005 Author Share Posted August 6, 2005 Originally posted by laRubiaBonita YES, of course call Him! maybe he is thinking , Wow i have to doo all the work and make all the calls...... i bet he would be thrilled with a call from you. i call him like 1-2x a day (i don't wanna call too much...we all know how that goes haha) but i think he ignores my calls...cuz it'll ring once or twice and in the middle of a ring it'll go to his voicemail.... I miss talking to him Link to post Share on other sites
NYCmitch25 Posted August 6, 2005 Share Posted August 6, 2005 Originally posted by steenerz i call him like 1-2x a day (i don't wanna call too much...we all know how that goes haha) but i think he ignores my calls...cuz it'll ring once or twice and in the middle of a ring it'll go to his voicemail.... I miss talking to him You seem a little bit like the "clingy" type and if so good luck to this guy (or any guy you date). Do you call him excessively when he is bumbing around in your town -- I guess that only you really can answer that. Anyway, your codependancy "needs" seem to be the more likelihood of the issue here and hence, that problem could possibly lead to premature terminiation of your relationship(s). ps. Honestly, I could be completely wrong in my comments because I don't have any details, but it seems weird that he is putting you in voice mail... good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Author steenerz Posted August 6, 2005 Author Share Posted August 6, 2005 perhaps i'm a little clingy...but it's just that i'm so used to talking/seeing him everydya, the first week he was gone he called me like 5x a day, we'd always talk for an hour +....i just like to know what he did during the day and stuff...now starting the last week he's been there and with different fmaily members, he hasn't called me... kinda makes me feel like he only called me cuz he was bored staying with his grandparents...and that hurts me. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr.positive Posted August 7, 2005 Share Posted August 7, 2005 Just let him be. He'll want you bad when he gets back. Link to post Share on other sites
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