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Hello, I'm Mike and I met this one girl at band camp, a couple days ago who I have found myself attracted to. Although, I'm a shy person and I have very few friends, this girl always seems to compliment me and say 'hi' to me if she sees me walking by. Now, before we get to the point of this post, I'll tell you a little bit about myself, I'm your average looking black male, I wash myself up(Which means, I have good hygiene) and I could get girls if I wanted to, but I've come to realize over time, that getting girls isn't my best thing. The girl is a white female, little shorter than me, average looks, who seems to be very confident about herself, to add to that, she's a senior and I'm only a sophomore. Back to the matter at hand, do you guys think that this girl is attracted/seeking a relationship with me or does she just realize that I'm a very shy person?

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Originally posted by MikeViper

Back to the matter at hand, do you guys think that this girl is attracted/seeking a relationship with me or does she just realize that I'm a very shy person?

 

This is a question only she can answer, but what I can say is that you might wanna try getting to know her better and see if she wants to even hang out with you as friends. If she does then maybe you could work it to eventually just be the two of you and go from there.

 

I find that if a guy is shy, and whose thing isn't "getting girls" then it takes a bit longer for me to get attached. I don't instantly go ga-ga.....he has to grow on me. This is probably the only circumstance I suggest becoming friends first, and of course the fact that you are still in high school.

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