Holly. Posted July 2, 2017 Share Posted July 2, 2017 (edited) Hi everyone, basically ive met my perfect man weve been serious for 6 month now hes 40 im 23, my parents do not approve as much as ive tried to sell him as such they just cant get over the age difference my mother is so spiteful and always puts me down she always has, she talks about my boyfriend like hes a piece of muck on her shoe. Its got to the point now where im so upset i hate coming home because ive nobody to talk to she ignores me all the time ive told her what a lovely man he is showed her pictures etc told her how happy he makes me but shes having none of it. At the moment me and my partner are looking for somewhere to live i cant deal with this **** anymore can anyone help or relate please thanks. oh also they bought me a puppy for my 18th and im not allowed to take her with me or anywhere with me which is complete nonsense i just cant win she is legally MY dog. Edited July 2, 2017 by Holly. Link to post Share on other sites
Arieswoman Posted July 2, 2017 Share Posted July 2, 2017 Holly, As long as you live in your parents' house they make the rules. If you don't like it, move out. You sound quite immature for 23, do you work? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Holly. Posted July 2, 2017 Author Share Posted July 2, 2017 oh i am moving out, and yes i do. im the opposite of immature thanks. i didnt ask for more negative views to be honest. Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted July 2, 2017 Share Posted July 2, 2017 On the 15th of May your 20 year older boyfriend of 6 weeks dumped you for getting paranoid about him speaking to his ex. And in April you were dating another man and in March yet another, so where does the 6 months of ""seriously" dating this guy come in? Of course your parents are not going not like him, he is old enough to be your Dad and the reasons why a 40 year old man dates a 23 yo in the first place are not usually good ones. They are worried for you. I guess they were not too pleased about your 45 yo MM either... 3 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 2, 2017 Share Posted July 2, 2017 Moving out of your parents' house & in with your older BF will exacerbate your problem. Do move out but don't move in with him. You don't know how to live on your own. You're not ready to play house with a BF. Prove you are independent from both your parents & some guy by living on your own or with a same sex roommate. Get a year of that under your belt. See where your then hopefully more stable relationship is at that point. Then re-evaluate your romantic situation. You move in with a guy old enough to be your father now, you are just trading parents & proving yours right that you make bad decisions. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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