Lingo1 Posted July 5, 2017 Share Posted July 5, 2017 So today i came in from work and my mom came in my room and said i have to talk to u come in the living room so respectfully i went we sat with my dad and spoke she said she went theought my draw and saw i had lubricant and ,handcuffs(for sexually active with my gf) she says that i am taking things to serious with my girlfriend and i am like what do u mean well the quick back story in a summary was that. My gf got kicked out and now lives on her own so u know i yold my mom out of just being my mom and i kinda was stressed over it but i never let it stress me to a point were I couldn't concentrate on school. So my parennts were wondering why nobody want to take my gf in such as family like her mom or dad which is because both her parents have abandoned her in thhe past and left her with her grandma . Now remind u both her mom and grandma are bipolar and they kicked her out both in past and now her dad just a low life person that just doesn't care she all she has is me and her aunt rhat doesnt live in the country but my dad said she too big for me i got upset at that because my gf is(jordian sparka) size so idk how the hell she is fat or big so i had to shut him down and my mom make it spund like my gf doesnt have going for her .Dhe isnt stupid or a dropout she couldn't go to college because. Of her mom not giving her the information for fasa but currently in trade school and is going to school for the fall or spring like idk what my parents make me feel so bad dating her she is a really nice girl I. Also forgot to mention shes 21 im 22 Link to post Share on other sites
mikeylo Posted July 5, 2017 Share Posted July 5, 2017 So today i came in from work and my mom came in my room and said i have to talk to u come in the living room so respectfully i went we sat with my dad and spoke she said she went theought my draw and saw i had lubricant and ,handcuffs(for sexually active with my gf) she says that i am taking things to serious with my girlfriend and i am like what do u mean well the quick back story in a summary was that. My gf got kicked out and now lives on her own so u know i yold my mom out of just being my mom and i kinda was stressed over it but i never let it stress me to a point were I couldn't concentrate on school. So my parennts were wondering why nobody want to take my gf in such as family like her mom or dad which is because both her parents have abandoned her in thhe past and left her with her grandma . Now remind u both her mom and grandma are bipolar and they kicked her out both in past and now her dad just a low life person that just doesn't care she all she has is me and her aunt rhat doesnt live in the country but my dad said she too big for me i got upset at that because my gf is(jordian sparka) size so idk how the hell she is fat or big so i had to shut him down and my mom make it spund like my gf doesnt have going for her .Dhe isnt stupid or a dropout she couldn't go to college because. Of her mom not giving her the information for fasa but currently in trade school and is going to school for the fall or spring like idk what my parents make me feel so bad dating her she is a really nice girl I. Also forgot to mention shes 21 im 22 You are an adult, live on your own. If you live with parents, they will have rules that you need to obey! Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 5, 2017 Share Posted July 5, 2017 Keep your kinky stuff at the GF's place to avoid snooping mom. Acknowledge that you heard your parents' concerns. They want the best for you which probably means you graduating & getting a good job before settling down with a life partner. They may fear an unplanned pregnancy which will derail those plans. Assure them that you have your priorities in order & have no plans to become a dad or husband any time soon. Perhaps have this chat with your father first. Encourage your GF to come by the house to interact with your parents in a respectful way so they too can learn she is the nice girl you claim. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lingo1 Posted July 5, 2017 Author Share Posted July 5, 2017 Keep your kinky stuff at the GF's place to avoid snooping mom. Acknowledge that you heard your parents' concerns. They want the best for you which probably means you graduating & getting a good job before settling down with a life partner. They may fear an unplanned pregnancy which will derail those plans. Assure them that you have your priorities in order & have no plans to become a dad or husband any time soon. Perhaps have this chat with your father first. Encourage your GF to come by the house to interact with your parents in a respectful way so they too can learn she is the nice girl you claim. I know i have my stuff intact and i try everytime, and she does she loves my parents tbh Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted July 5, 2017 Share Posted July 5, 2017 you two are at a difficult age, when you're just getting education and trying to make ends meet and yet too old to be living at home. I don't think you mentioned whether you are working or going to school. So which is it? If you're not in school, I recommend you get two jobs and save money for your own place and hope she gets a job after trade school. if you're in school, I recommend you understand that most parents will NOT be comfortable with their offspring having sex under their roof! Just realize that. It's not anything normal for them to have to deal with or you either. So if they're paying for school or you're just living there, save up and get out, and meanwhile, stop acting like that's your house to do what you want in because it's not. It's theirs and their rules. If you have any type of job, get another and get a roommate, and your gf should do the same for the time being. She can go to school and also work part-time. You two need to be saving money and not spending it. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted July 5, 2017 Share Posted July 5, 2017 good advice from the previous posters, I would add too that you didn't mention your parents finding condoms with those hand cuffs and lube.. I hope you only have safe sex because the last thing you need is for her to get pregnant. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lingo1 Posted July 5, 2017 Author Share Posted July 5, 2017 We both work and go to school we also both don't want kids at the moment we want to have everything in place before that happens ,such as our own place better jobs before any of that happens . We both also practice safe sex Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 Play by their rules until you save money and get out. It's that simple. It's not normal to have sex under your parents' roof, and they've made that clear. It's their house, their rules. Double down and get through school as quick as you can and then work two jobs and don't spend money but just save it. Now while you are living with your parents is the ONLY time in your life you will be able to save money this easily, so don't squander that opportunity. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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