Nubemeister Posted August 7, 2005 Posted August 7, 2005 It's starts out with a friend of mine. She has a guy friend that she met at work and they hang out and so on. She used to have best friend and at that time I understood they did everything together and such and I knew that If I wanted to do something like watch a movie I couldn't because she had already done it. They had a parting for awhile and so I was the only one around, so I felt she had me as a friend and her male friend. Her best friend and her are now talking back again and I have a feeling Im going to go back to just being there and just a person that is there.. I felt pushed aside because she only talked to me during work and then that was it. Then we started to hang out outside of work and talk and so on....but now it doesn't look that way. I want to get rid of the feeling of being neglected...I want to be able to take it in and just deal with it so I can be ok. I don't know if I am just being off or if I have some kind of point... I just feel like I am being shifted from importance or something like that.... And if I am just being overly sensitive then I need to deal with that and make it better Or if I just need to understand:) Thanks!
LucreziaBorgia Posted August 7, 2005 Posted August 7, 2005 Well, she has you at a lower priority - that's for sure. Your choices are fairly limited: adapt or leave. You could share how you are feeling with her, but I don't think you'll get any real changes. Probably some distance at the prospect of being obligated to spend more time with you, and at the very least sympathy spoken with a sweet smile and good nature.
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