jah526 Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 I asked something along the lines of if we were the only ones on earth and had one last day what would you want to do together and of course it was sexual. I asked him once what it was he loved about me and forbade it from being sexual or about my body, and it was that I listened to him. Another "service" to him. Yeah, I was actually hoping for something non-sexual, something positive about me as a person (and, yes, I know he couldn't really say I was a good person because I wasn't acting like one). But despite the fact that he was pretty terrible to me, and that he was cheating on his wife, I could still think of some good things about him. I dunno but if I told a guy the best thing about him was his d***, I think he might be just a tad insulted. Maybe not though... starting to think I don't understand men at all. :/ Link to post Share on other sites
Author norudder Posted July 9, 2017 Author Share Posted July 9, 2017 Yeah, I was actually hoping for something non-sexual, something positive about me as a person (and, yes, I know he couldn't really say I was a good person because I wasn't acting like one). But despite the fact that he was pretty terrible to me, and that he was cheating on his wife, I could still think of some good things about him. I dunno but if I told a guy the best thing about him was his d***, I think he might be just a tad insulted. Maybe not though... starting to think I don't understand men at all. :/ Maybe he would take it as a compliment. Maybe he doesn't mind being objectified. Society does encourage men to be measured in some degree by sexual prowess. Maybe part of why he didn't see it as demeaning to you. Its not quite the same but makes me think of the '5 love languages' and how people usually give to others what they would like to receive themselves. exmm asked me if I would rate his performance in bed highly enough to recommend to friends. This was well after ILYs had been exchanged. I just thought wtf - why would I refer you out? like he wanted to be a gigilo or the giver of sexual satisfaction to all as though he was gods gift to women. He had some cuckold fantasies about me too though. So i guess it went both ways but it was completely independent of thought towards my feelings or our relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
sandylee1 Posted July 10, 2017 Share Posted July 10, 2017 Better to buy a doll than to mistreat a person IMO INDEED I agree. However, I really couldn't be married to a man who felt the need to buy that doll. That would be a sure sign for me to end the marriage. Seriously though, if I'm not enough for my husband he can bugger off and live alone with his doll. It's actually quite embarrassing IMO. Link to post Share on other sites
Vivir Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 My, my, my... they have, and continue to open, sex doll (as in robot doll) brothels in Europe. They say that in this technological age, no one's role is safe... not even prostitutes... I can relate to this doll sentiment, although xMM did see me as a person.. I was someone that entertained and serviced him at regular intervals. What I wanted or needed apparently didn't matter to either of us. I was objectified like the robot sex doll of the future: entertain by stroking ego, service sexually, don't ask questions and don't "talk back," then turn off until needed next time... requires little effort, gives immediate and high returns for investment... hey, I heard those robot sex dolls aren't cheap. Link to post Share on other sites
somanymistakes Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 I wonder if anyone's ever done a full economic analysis of the average affair to compare it to the cost of a sex doll. Link to post Share on other sites
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