Author King Bowls Posted July 25, 2017 Author Share Posted July 25, 2017 Seems like oneitis is genetic or shaped environmentally very early in life. Sure, there are plenty of cases where it's a problem of scarcity, pwhere the men are not good with getting women, projection and fantasy, anxious/obsessive tendencies, etc., but I've known some normal men who have women falling into their lap, but they get attached with one particular woman very easily.It's just a personality thing. Like how monogamy is very appealing to some people, whereas not to others. I don't think GFTOW or anything else solves it for some people. Perhaps it is genetic. I've had maybe...five major crushes before this one. Dating all the way back to first grade. What did the ending results of each all have in common? Failure. An inability to take effective action. I know this one is different in critical ways, but the end result is still the same, coming away empty-handed. I haven't been interested in being in a serious relationship with any of the girl friends I've had over the years. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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