What do kids need from their divorced fathers?

[SammySammy]

I'm living very happy years of my life right now. Peace and quiet in my own house. Yes I'd like to see my kids more but I did my best and just got a raw deal. And you're correct that I was the target of dozens of accusations which I had to spend disproving instead of using my court time to show why I'm a great dad. (That's a tactic abusers use. They don't even give you the time to breathe and state your case.) All of my accusations were disproven but at the expense of my time.

 

Anyway, even though I'm happy now, I still defend the truth wherever I see lies flying around.

 

I understand. Definitely understand wanting to see your kids more and getting a raw deal. Sometimes it seems that neither marriage nor divorce is a good deal for men. You seem to be doing the best you can. Hang in there.