I need help with this relationship PLEASE!!!!

[Thablock]

Hey I just want to hear some thoughts about this.

 

Me and my girlfiend have been going out for 6 months. everything was perfect and I mean perfect. I love her and she says she loves me. She tells me how much she talks about me and how sweet I am to her. She is under enormious stress these past couple weeks and where she is right now she is not happy. Everything was going great with this long distance thing but just like 5 days ago. She told me that things were getting real bad where she lived and she needed to take a time-out. she get keept teling that it was nout a break-up but a time where she can take alook at here surrounds and her atmosphere. It hurts so much I dont know what to do. is it possable for her to still want to be with me but just needs a little time to her self?. any help would help. thanks

[aloneinTX]

Yes we all need our space at times, maybe even several days worth. Go about your way and do projects that you have been putting off. She might just wonder why you are so busy

[TnT]

As a women in a LDR and under alot of stress myself ATM, i can c how she might be feeling, and i understand where u r coming from. Giving her space is more than likely a good idea, as long as u tell her that u r always there for her to talk to. Let her know she can approcah u at any time with anything and reassure her that things will work out in her life, maybe try and help her with putting a plan in place so things are flowing in her life the way she wants them to.

 

I hope that helps somewhat.

[Thablock]

alright thanks folks. Things are about to end I think. She says she just cant take it. but she still says she missies and loves me alot. I just hope that she can move back up here and we can get back together.