CrazyMonkeyX Posted August 8, 2005 Share Posted August 8, 2005 Can anyone tell me some signs that a girl is interested in you? then my problem: alright, I like this girl and I THINK she likes me atleast a little bit as well (a bunch of people have said she does) anyway...Im thinking of asking her to come somewhere with me...more than likely come over to my house and watch a movie, or go to the movies...but Im wondering if someone could tell me exactly what to say? I wouldve done it/tried already but I can never figure out what to say that wouldnt sound crazy or stupid.... Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
Zephyr45 Posted August 8, 2005 Share Posted August 8, 2005 hmmm, this is a really hard one. I've racked my brain and I think I've come up with the ultimate line to ask her with: "Would you like to come over to my house to watch a movie?" I perceive you are young (teens). This might be a fine date activity depending on how well you know each other and what is the norm, so use your judgement. But, in general a girl would probably a bit more comfortable doing something casual in public, or as a group activity with friends. So it may be better to ask her out to a movie with another couple you two know, for instance. Link to post Share on other sites
Author CrazyMonkeyX Posted August 9, 2005 Author Share Posted August 9, 2005 I mean, I have trouble bringing up going somewhere/doing something period...I just dont know how to do it without sounding stupid...my friend suggested dropping hints and get HER to bring it up...so anyone got any ideas on how I could do this? Link to post Share on other sites
JS17 Posted August 9, 2005 Share Posted August 9, 2005 I think you're young so why not something simple like "I really wanted to see *name of movie*, want to go with me?" Link to post Share on other sites
Author CrazyMonkeyX Posted August 9, 2005 Author Share Posted August 9, 2005 Im to shy to just come out and say it like that, pretty pathetic huh? Link to post Share on other sites
JS17 Posted August 9, 2005 Share Posted August 9, 2005 not pathetic but you're going to have to learn how to take a risk if you want the reward. what's the worst that can happen? she shoots you down? so what, it means you're wasting less of your time thinking about someone who's not interested and leaves you time to find someone who is. just take a deep breath and ask. Link to post Share on other sites
Author CrazyMonkeyX Posted August 9, 2005 Author Share Posted August 9, 2005 yeah but I work w/ her thats why its kinda hard Link to post Share on other sites
Author CrazyMonkeyX Posted August 9, 2005 Author Share Posted August 9, 2005 how so?...im shy so I really havent tried before Link to post Share on other sites
Author CrazyMonkeyX Posted August 9, 2005 Author Share Posted August 9, 2005 I need as much help as I can get tonight, because im gonna try to ask her to go to the movies or somethin...if I could figure out how to bring it up...an idea I had Was: once I see her/sey hey ect, then "I started to come by here this weekend (she worked the weekend) and see if you wanted to come with me and my friend to see ___(a movie), but I figured you probably already had plans... then see what she says, and if she says something I can work with be like... "well we didnt get to go anyway b/c of _____(reason ive yet to come up with), we're supposed to go today, do you want to come?" the only problem would be finding a friend to go along with it....IDK I need some help!! Link to post Share on other sites
JS17 Posted August 9, 2005 Share Posted August 9, 2005 don't do the friend thing. that's a cop out.... hey, had a great weekend, how was yours? *her response* yeah well i really wanted to see __movie but didn't get to. Do you want to go see it with me? Link to post Share on other sites
Author CrazyMonkeyX Posted August 9, 2005 Author Share Posted August 9, 2005 I know im not gonna be able to say it like that though, im gonna freeze up Link to post Share on other sites
Author CrazyMonkeyX Posted August 9, 2005 Author Share Posted August 9, 2005 maybe I should try getting her #/giving her mine first...whats a good way to do that without sounding stupid? Link to post Share on other sites
Author CrazyMonkeyX Posted August 9, 2005 Author Share Posted August 9, 2005 Alright, I was going to ask if shed like to come over here and watch a movie (because the only movie theatre around is crappy)...she knows pretty much my whole family (well everyone that lives with me) since we all work in the same place. Link to post Share on other sites
Author CrazyMonkeyX Posted August 9, 2005 Author Share Posted August 9, 2005 Alright, I was going to ask if shed like to come over here and watch a movie (because the only movie theatre around is crappy)...she knows pretty much my whole family (well everyone that lives with me) since we all work in the same place. Link to post Share on other sites
blue16 Posted August 9, 2005 Share Posted August 9, 2005 lol Star Gazer I can tell you are getting frustrated, I am too a little bit. As to what has been said before, just ask her out. If she likes you she's not gonna think "Oh he didn't ask me out in a perfect way so I'm not interested anymore." as long as you make some kind of move she should jump all over it. A movie, hanging out...whatever. Just make some kind of conversation, and ask "What are you doing this weekend?" Listen to what she says, then ask if she wants to go see 'such and such' movie, or ask her to coffee or something...whatever you want to do. No matter how busy she is (within reason) she will make time for you if she is interested. Link to post Share on other sites
Zephyr45 Posted August 10, 2005 Share Posted August 10, 2005 This is becoming amusing. CrazyMonkeyX, if you want to go out/hang out with this girl, you are just going to have to suck it up, and do what Star Gazer has suggested. Trust us. You came here for some help and we are giving it. Sorry it's not easy and you can't just smile at her and all of a sudden have her ask you out for you. You are going to have to a) approach her, b) start a conversation and then c) ask her out. There's no other alternative, and believe me, you will look more like a fool if suggest she wouldn't even want to go, or just ask for/give numbers. Even if she declines your invitation, and even if you are awkward, she will be impressed and flattered that you approached her and asked her out, rather than just hid in your hole. Link to post Share on other sites
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