Never feeling good enough?

[Belle23]

How do you get over that feeling of never feeling good enough for people, especially when a relationship/friendship ends?

[BaileyB]

Belle,

 

It's difficult and often sad when a relationship ends. Do you want to tell us more about what has happened and how you are feeling?

 

I will say, the thing about life is that we can not control what others think and feel about us. And truthfully, what they think does not matter (although sometimes, it feels like it does). At the end of the day, the only thing that really matters is that you think that you are good enough. When you feel like you are good enough, it won't matter as much what others think.

 

So, spend time with people who love you and believe in you. Let them lift you up while you work to discover this for yourself. And know that whatever has happened, however this relationship ended, you are good enough - just as you are. They just didn't see it... And that's ok. Take care.

[d0nnivain]

You work on your self esteem. Try some self help books or check out exercises from the internet.