misspalmy Posted July 28, 2017 Share Posted July 28, 2017 just woundering if there is any other out there? Link to post Share on other sites
noelle303 Posted July 30, 2017 Share Posted July 30, 2017 I have a six year old daughter with xMM. He become an ex pretty much the moment I told him I was pregnant. Is that your current predicament and that's why you're wondering? Link to post Share on other sites
MJJean Posted July 30, 2017 Share Posted July 30, 2017 Technically my DH qualifies. I was married to my exH when I began dating DH. I separated, but wasn't divorced when DH and I had our son. Link to post Share on other sites
Author misspalmy Posted July 30, 2017 Author Share Posted July 30, 2017 I have a six year old daughter with xMM. He become an ex pretty much the moment I told him I was pregnant. Is that your current predicament and that's why you're wondering? i have son to ex mm, just wanted know if theres others out there too Link to post Share on other sites
starswewillnavigate Posted July 30, 2017 Share Posted July 30, 2017 (edited) I'm not sure it counts but my dd's father was a mm but I didn't know that until his wife turned up a few weeks after I found out I was pregnant. He and I lived together at that time. I don't count that as an affair. Edited July 30, 2017 by starswewillnavigate Spelling Link to post Share on other sites
road Posted July 30, 2017 Share Posted July 30, 2017 Technically my DH qualifies. I was married to my exH when I began dating DH. I separated, but wasn't divorced when DH and I had our son. Is it not better to be more accurate as in ex-OM now DH? Link to post Share on other sites
road Posted July 30, 2017 Share Posted July 30, 2017 I'm not sure it counts but my dd's father was a mm but I didn't know that until his wife turned up a few weeks after I found out I was pregnant. He and I lived together at that time. I don't count that as an affair. Your OM's WW did count it as one. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
starswewillnavigate Posted July 31, 2017 Share Posted July 31, 2017 Your OM's WW did count it as one. Of course. However, I didn't know she existed. The loser in all of this is my dd, so I'm not really concerned with bs' feelings on the matter of whether it was an affair or not. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
William Posted July 31, 2017 Share Posted July 31, 2017 As a reminder, this is a thread for members who've had children with an affair partner to comment on those experiences. It's not a venue for further anti-affair rhetoric. Plenty of other threads for that. Thanks in advance for your cooperation! Link to post Share on other sites
noelle303 Posted July 31, 2017 Share Posted July 31, 2017 i have son to ex mm, just wanted know if theres others out there too So, does your son see his dad? My daughter currently spends every other weekend with xMM and his family. Link to post Share on other sites
Author misspalmy Posted August 1, 2017 Author Share Posted August 1, 2017 I'm not sure it counts but my dd's father was a mm but I didn't know that until his wife turned up a few weeks after I found out I was pregnant. He and I lived together at that time. I don't count that as an affair. does he see your child? did he end up going back to the wife? Link to post Share on other sites
starswewillnavigate Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 does he see your child? did he end up going back to the wife? Yes, he sees our dd but unfortunately we live on different continents now, so it's once yearly. They Skype almost daily. She's not a hidden secret to people in his life, he's very proud of her and all his friends and family know about her. His marital situation is a bit more complicated as there are cultural differences at play. As I understand she is still in his life but they don't live together full time. More than happy to chat via pm x Link to post Share on other sites
Southwardbound Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 One son to MM, who is in his early 20's. Link to post Share on other sites
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