fred123 Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 this is a generic question although yes it was related to my "ex". i know people have said she is bull****ting me but I'm curious none the less to explore what she meant and how i can improve on this particular topic. i had asked her a couple of times to go on a spa break across the country to my second home. both times she made excuses or was busy etc. i then asked another girl if she wanted to accompany me to that same city as i wanted to see my old friends back there and she said yes ( i was not exclusive with the first one and she made it clear she didnt want me to). so when me and my ex broke up i asked her again why she didnt come with me for a trip to spa break. she said " the girl you went with you probably asked her in a relaxed way but it wasn't relaxed with me. i felt pressured" so I'm trying to understand how you ask someone in a relax way because i asked them both in the same way to my knowledge " hey i want to go to ( insert city) and i want to take you there for a spa break. when are you free?" Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 You probably asked them both the same. No matter what you did or said to your EX she cried that she was pressured. She was never all that pressured. The only pressure came from her wanting to hide you & her knowing that even though you accepted her lies she was treating you poorly. It wasn't you. It was her. The only thing you did "wrong" was believe her. Being the sweet guy that you are you let her fool you into thinking sex meant she cared. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 i know people have said she is bull****ting me Yes, she is bull-baiting you. (I assume that is what the *s stand for) Link to post Share on other sites
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