AndyMate30 Posted August 6, 2017 Share Posted August 6, 2017 This is what I told my wife before we got married. I have Asperger syndrome and I'm not from California's hollywood Neverland, nor am I from my upper middle class aunt's Woodstock. And I'm from Philadelphia....and that place s)ucks, And I dont have money and I don't have a PhD in rocket science... And my dad was a drunk. Philadelphia's democratic liberal ideology is the kind that wants their food stamps. It's not the progressive, we hire gay african American people with down syndrome, pass around the joint kind of a place... And I never had any opportunities. I had to build a body, because wasn't allowed to build a mind until I had a body. Now, knowing that... Just you understand... If we get married, are you going to be there with me and accept the fact that my love is likely all I will have to offer you ? Because it's very important that you understand that. You are at the very most liberal, my stepmom. Do you accept that level of commitment ? Are you my mom ? Are you there for me, as long as I'm not the abusive mister king d!ck and crazy and drunk ? . Because I need you. Because if we're going to get married, I cannot afford to have games played.... And I won't get into a relationship that is dangerous for me or the both of us. That's what I said to her Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted August 6, 2017 Share Posted August 6, 2017 And how's it working out? Link to post Share on other sites
Author AndyMate30 Posted August 6, 2017 Author Share Posted August 6, 2017 (edited) And how's it working out? Good so far, because she knows what am able to do for her... And I am keeping my end of the deal very well. Edited August 6, 2017 by AndyMate30 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Tamari Posted August 7, 2017 Share Posted August 7, 2017 Hi Andy, thank you for posting that. Does your wife understand the way you are? If so, how does she demonstate that? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
littleblackheart Posted August 7, 2017 Share Posted August 7, 2017 Hi fellow Aspie! Help me understand: are you having marital problems? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author AndyMate30 Posted August 8, 2017 Author Share Posted August 8, 2017 Hi fellow Aspie! Help me understand: are you having marital problems? It's going good so far, two years in 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author AndyMate30 Posted August 8, 2017 Author Share Posted August 8, 2017 Hi Andy, thank you for posting that. Does your wife understand the way you are? If so, how does she demonstate that? Yes she understands. She said that obviously she can't live a nightmare disasterous life, of being abused, which I wouldn't do either, but she agrees to take the good with the bad overall and get through life together. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AndyMate30 Posted August 8, 2017 Author Share Posted August 8, 2017 She's also an RN. Link to post Share on other sites
Tamari Posted August 9, 2017 Share Posted August 9, 2017 What is an RN? Link to post Share on other sites
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