Is she just friendly, or does she want something?

[amazonboy01]

So, I've got this new office job. I'm doing online suport in german, because I fluently speak the language. I am only going to work here for this summer, because I'm currently still in high school, so I need some extra money during the holidays.

 

So, I'm 18 and she's 22. We get along pretty well with each other. She grew in Germany, she moved out from her parents and is currently living alone. Anyways, I am living about 30 miles away from the place we work, and as I always have to hitchhike to work.

 

As I told her how I'm getting to work, she proposed me that I could go to her place and sleep there, when we have night shifts. She said she wouldn't mind at all. And that was happening after just 3 weeks after we met.

 

Is she just friendly? How can she trust me like that?

[d0nnivain]

Yikes Hitchhiking is dangerous. Find another way to get to work.

 

I was going to say she's just being friendly. She probably misses home & your ability to speak German gives her a connection

 

But then you mentioned she offered to let you sleep at her house. That is way more then friendly & a very odd offer for a 22 year old woman to make to an 18 year old boy. Go if you like ,assuming it's OK with your parents & they know where you are. Bring condoms. Let her lead.

[knabe]

So....you've already picked out the target of your "cheating to get even with your girlfriend for not being her first" idea?

[CptInsano]

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As I told her how I'm getting to work, she proposed me that I could go to her place and sleep there, when we have night shifts. She said she wouldn't mind at all. And that was happening after just 3 weeks after we met.

 

I grew up in Germany, and it is not that uncommon that women just socialize with men. Germany is relatively safe overall, and women can be very trusting because of it. But that doesn't mean that they have any romantic interest.

 

Telling the difference between friendship and romance can be very hard under these circumstances. I would not assume anything in your case.