Have you ever dated someone again you lost interest in before?

[grazyexes]

If someone was really attracted to you first, chased you and wanted to see you badly, but you did things wrong that turned her/him off. Have you ever dated them again after being on no contact for a long time. Can you reset that low interest level where it used to be with being no contact, or is it already done.

 

I personally have never dated someone again if I once lost interest.

[d0nnivain]

I did it once. I had a summer fling as part of a summer share house. Summer faded & we both went our separate ways.

 

About 2 years later we met up again IRL, not at the beach. We tried again but it was short lived.

 

This girl who has you by the shorthairs is a lost cause. She is not interested in an LTR. She is a hit it & quit it type. If the sex with you was good, she might be back for another whirl around your bed, but that's it. Stop thinking she's gonna stay or there won't be other guys. Do wear a condom & get routinely tested; she's had way too many partners to rely on trust alone.

[grazyexes]

I did it once. I had a summer fling as part of a summer share house. Summer faded & we both went our separate ways.

 

About 2 years later we met up again IRL, not at the beach. We tried again but it was short lived.

 

This girl who has you by the shorthairs is a lost cause. She is not interested in an LTR. She is a hit it & quit it type. If the sex with you was good, she might be back for another whirl around your bed, but that's it. Stop thinking she's gonna stay or there won't be other guys. Do wear a condom & get routinely tested; she's had way too many partners to rely on trust alone.

 

She didn't respond to my last snaps where I asked what she wants. I know you should not ask anything like that but after I have lost her two times already, I wanted to know what she wants so I don't waste my time.

Should I delete her from social media or is that a weak move?

[d0nnivain]

Deleting her from social media is a STRONG move. It definitively shows you are done with her games. Keeping her there is inviting her to come & play with your emotions again.

 

You have broken up twice. I think you only had sex on 3 occasions. The whole thing is not working for you. Why are you continuing to bother with her? Good sex isn't that hard to find.

[elaine567]

She didn't respond to my last snaps where I asked what she wants. I know you should not ask anything like that but after I have lost her two times already, I wanted to know what she wants so I don't waste my time.

Should I delete her from social media or is that a weak move?

 

YOU ARE wasting your time.

 

NEVER get involved with people who are still involved with someone else.

Anyone who loves their ex, hates their ex, is fighting with an ex, is regularly contacting an ex, spends loads of time with their ex, sleeps with their ex, has recently split with an ex... etc.

And if anyone tells you they do not want to be in a relationship with you - believe them.

 

Steer well clear.

[grazyexes]

YOU ARE wasting your time.

 

NEVER get involved with people who are still involved with someone else.

Anyone who loves their ex, hates their ex, is fighting with an ex, is regularly contacting an ex, spends loads of time with their ex, sleeps with their ex, has recently split with an ex... etc.

And if anyone tells you they do not want to be in a relationship with you - believe them.

 

Steer well clear.

 

She told me that shes completely over her ex. I thought maybe this will work, as long as she doesn't choose someone else over me. Because I met her while she was involved with her ex so she was not emotionally available back then.

Now tho, after two days we had sex, she slept with someone else and now she is cold again. Can't believe im still after this girl and she doesnt seem to even care about me.

[BaileyB]

Yes. It didn't work.

 

Given what you have shared, I think it's time to move on for you too.

[grazyexes]

Deleting her from social media is a STRONG move. It definitively shows you are done with her games. Keeping her there is inviting her to come & play with your emotions again.

 

You have broken up twice. I think you only had sex on 3 occasions. The whole thing is not working for you. Why are you continuing to bother with her? Good sex isn't that hard to find.

 

 

I just told her that ''because we have tried so many times before and this is still like this, I think it will never work''.

She replied ''yeah well, I don't know''

And I said ''well, I know''

 

I feel alot better now after saying those words. I feel like I rejected her and got my power back. Not going to contact her anymore.