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i don't think so......

 

i think it depends on more details about the why there was that 8 year wait? can you offer more information?

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utwonderwoman

I dated someone for eight years. I believe that you can wait too long. You get complacent and you wonder what is wrong with the status quo. There never is a reason to get married until you become pregnant; and he may not see that as a need to get married anyway.

 

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Depends on why, I think. If you're young and have been dating since, say, your Freshman year in High school - it would make perfect sense to wait until you're through with college or whatever plans you have.

 

If you're in your mid-late 30's or 40's, I'd have to wonder if he's just stalling because it's not what he wants.

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