Any other guys here who don't watch porn?

[ZayKayWill]

Wasn't sure where to post this. I seriously have no idea why people look at me like I'm crazy for this, but I don't find porn to be appealing at all. The most I watch is maybe 5x a year if that. It doesn't turn me on at all, really. Can't really explain why. I think it has to do with the fact that it just seems way too low class for me. My brother is literally addicted to that crap. Can't go a week without it. And he's 11 years older than me. Lol.

Edited August 24, 2017 by ZayKayWill

[knabe]

I know men who don't watch/use it. It's not that they are prudes or weirdos. They just don't need it and don't see the point. My fiance doesn't use it, and we have an awesome intimate life. I think he used it occasionally when he was younger, but he once said that nobody ever died from being horny, which I thought was both amusing and mature lol

 

This idea that porn is some primal need and inalienable right says a whole lot about the maturity and self-control of a lot of men. No, I don't care who looks at it, and if I found some on my fiance's phone I'd probably laugh and watch it too. But this idea that a man is going to just DIE without it or a woman who doesn't want him to use it is some horrific frigid shrew is just so middle school.

[Miss Spider]

I've known men like that. They just found it kind of cheesy, I think. Incidentally(or perhaps not?), these were guys that got laid a lot.

[ZayKayWill]

I know men who don't watch/use it. It's not that they are prudes or weirdos. They just don't need it and don't see the point. My fiance doesn't use it, and we have an awesome intimate life. I think he used it occasionally when he was younger, but he once said that nobody ever died from being horny, which I thought was both amusing and mature lol

 

This idea that porn is some primal need and inalienable right says a whole lot about the maturity and self-control of a lot of men. No, I don't care who looks at it, and if I found some on my fiance's phone I'd probably laugh and watch it too. But this idea that a man is going to just DIE without it or a woman who doesn't want him to use it is some horrific frigid shrew is just so middle school.

 

 

Eh I don't think anyone has the right to tell someone what to do with his own personal private time, but I can see why a woman wouldn't necessarily be jumping for joy at the fact that her bf/husband watches it I guess.

[Bastile]

Too "high class" to masturbate.

 

Just when I think that I've read it all lol

 

If I go more than 3/4 days without busting a nut, one way or another, I'm likely to rip some poor guys head off for no reason.

 

Being asexual is not "high class"... it's just being asexual.

 

"Porn addiction" isn't something that I've looked much into - I consider it irrelevant. But from what I've seen, it's a risible idea. The same sort of dopamine hit gets received through the process of seeing multiple women.

 

Your bro isn't addicted to porn. He just can't be bothered to go and chat up some girls, and get his kicks through that.

[JustGettingBy]

I've toned down my usage recently. I've noticed I'm more motivated to leave the house, have more positive and trusting thoughts of other people (especially women), and am less moody.

 

Haven't gotten laid as a result, though.

[Shanex]

I watch quite a bit of porn, to be honest. And this has nothing to do with getting laid regularily on top of that. In fact, the more I am getting laid, the more I think about it.

 

I don't watch anything gross, the better vids are the 'amateurs' ones, yet with a HD and they turn me on. Does that mean I'll automatically rub one out? Actually, no. I can watch it, get a quick boner and leave it at that, trying to save energy for my girlfriend.

[Steve51]

It does get boring after a few minutes but it is also a great education in sex as long as you are smart enough to know the difference between fantasy and reality. You can learn new positions and techniques. It can give you confidence that you are having sex correctly rather than playing it by ear and not knowing if the girl likes it as much as she does with other guys.

 

I learned about many fetishes that my wife I enjoyed. In fact, we are in one now for the last 5 years that I did not even know existed. People make too much of sex. All animals have sex so it is not big deal. Only a big deal because we make it so. Of course, as I said above, you need to be smart enough to separate the fantasy from reality during a porn video.

 

My wife and I have had 45 wonderful married years and sex life. We did things people who never watched porn did not even know about. In my younger days I had sex with married women whose husband were boring in bed. Many men cheat to be with women who are better or more adventurous in bed.

 

Unless you are peeking into windows at night, how are you going to learn the wealth of sexual pleasures available to us without watching porn?

[JuneJulySeptember]

Wasn't sure where to post this. I seriously have no idea why people look at me like I'm crazy for this, but I don't find porn to be appealing at all. The most I watch is maybe 5x a year if that. It doesn't turn me on at all, really. Can't really explain why. I think it has to do with the fact that it just seems way too low class for me. My brother is literally addicted to that crap. Can't go a week without it. And he's 11 years older than me. Lol.

 

I watch it almost every day as more of a habit, but it is starting get somewhat old.

 

But I think that also has as much to do with my general sex drive declining.

 

Porn and real sex are just different. They're two different experiences.

[Miss Spider]

I watch quite a bit of porn, to be honest. And this has nothing to do with getting laid regularily on top of that. In fact, the more I am getting laid, the more I think about it.

 

I don't watch anything gross, the better vids are the 'amateurs' ones, yet with a HD and they turn me on. Does that mean I'll automatically rub one out? Actually, no. I can watch it, get a quick boner and leave it at that, trying to save energy for my girlfriend.

 

Haha that makes sense. It probably doesn't matter. The guy I'm thinking of in particular left to go play basketball when they turned on porn. He is super good looking and women used to throw themselves at him at bars.It was comical. But man he was good looking....

[CptInsano]

[...] it just seems way too low class for me.

 

Then you are watching the wrong porn. Some of the amateur stuff is quite beautiful. It's not cheesy to me when it's clear that the people in front of the camera are into it.

[Els]

There is no interest in life that appeals to 100% of any particular demographic, so it shouldn't come as a surprise that porn is no different.

 

I mean, porn hasn't really been around for very long. Yes, there were Playboy magazines etc before that... but even THAT hasn't been around for very long. Not even for 10% of recorded history (and the human species started long before recorded history). What did men do then when they didn't have anyone to have sex with? The same thing lots of men do now, I'm sure - use their cerebral cortex.

 

That being said, as a woman I do enjoy the occasional porn-watching. I guess it's like TV to me. Fine in small doses. Some of it can be quite well-made.

[ZayKayWill]

Bababumpabump.

[SammySammy]

I don't NEED porn or masturbation. I just think it's a personal matter. Whether we do it not should be personal decision. I'm really skeptical about people who insist others shouldn't do it or act as if they know it's the cause of all sexual problems.

[Thatoneguy55]

I don't watch porn any more....

 

 

I don't watch porn any less, either.