How to say to someone that you are feelong fall out of love to him?

[xenyorita]

im living with someone almost 7 years now.,but unfortunately late last year up to now my relationship with him was on the rock, especially this year starting MARCH 2017 i was felt not happy with our relationship, we did not talk most of the time., he didn't call me or text me where i am, if i already take my meal,or what time i will going home, i feel like that i have no partner/boyfriend.,then one day i was just happy to spend my time witrh my collegues drink all the time., and it feels like im comfortable because im feeling single though i am not.,that's my issue my live in partner was very confident that no matter what happen i'll be loyal to him even he doesn,t care nor even act that he is my partner., you know what in 6 years im a good partner i never cheat., because there's no reason to do that., but in other way relationship has no issue have a BIG issue inside., tired of being care for someone who not know how to give to you the same, till one day i ask myself do i fell out of love with him? kissing is no there, hug,make love,cuddling,, ang my intention was in other man already., how do i say to him that i want a space to find myself and know what i want., that he will understand because now he is acting like he never heard anything from me, and act that there's no problem between us., i want to find myself and make a decision because now I AM NOT HAPPY ANYMORE..,pls help me to decide., thanks

[bummer]

Make a plan of where you will stay when you leave. Another apartment or friends or family. But set it up in advance.

 

Then tell him what you told us. Find a good time that's calm and not to stressful to make him a meal and when finished, tell him you need space and time to rethink. Tell him you want to try being separate for 1 month (or however long you think you need to decide) and set a specific date when you will move out. Set a specific date when you will reconnect in public for dinner.

 

Hopefully he either makes a change and you miss him dearly, or you move on with your life. Good luck

[d0nnivain]

Just be forthright & truthful. Tell him how you feel.

 

 

Would your feelings come back do you think, if he became the caring supportive BF you want?

 

 

Do have a plan for the practicalities of the situation like how & when you will move out.

[preraph]

I wouldn't even go into detail. I would say something like, I know you must have noticed by now that we no longer have a real connection, and I'm sorry, but I'm moving out and moving on. Before you even do it, get a place to live and start taking stuff over there while he's gone to work so that after you tell him, you only have a few things left to take and be done with it. But if you do it that way, which is the safe way, you also need to somehow pony up your month's rent for the following month so as not to leave him homeless. Get yourself off the lease before you leave so he doesn't run up a bill you're responsible for and utilities. Get yourself off the utilities.