Am I Deaf, Dumb, and Blind? What is his body language suggesting?

[I_want2settle_down]

Ok, so I am in my third year of college. There is a guy that I have become aquainted with. More so 'friendly" than anything else but I am not really sure.

 

He has always been around since I have been in college but we didn't really start talking to one another until about 5 or 6 months ago. I have always thought that he is a good looking guy but I never was really attracted to him at first. It started out that we would just kind of 'run' into each other and our eys would lock. This is was got the ball rolling. Every single time we would run into each other, we would just lock our eyes with one another and gaze for a few seconds. When this happened I would get this very good sensation like butterflies in my tummy.

 

That eye locking is what led us to the 'curious' phase. We started noticing each other as soon as we'd walk into the door or if we'd see each other from afar. I still didn't pay attention to him, however, he would wave at me once he saw me in the distance. I noticed that he would look at me quite a bit. He would always be where he knew I was going. He would ask me very obvious questions. He just seemed as though interested or at least curious about me.

 

We would ask each other 'How are you doing?', Hi's and hello's... EVERY single time we'd see each other! This then led to the 'conversation' phase. At this point we had developed a much more aquainted relationship, if there even was a relationship. He just always seemed so happy to see me. Like a little baby seeing their mommy or daddy, or a puppy seeing it's owner. I know it sounds silly but I am putting it as simply as I can.

 

I felt as though he was pursuing me. There were other obvious signs however too much for me to list. So he started to ask me personal questions like 'where do you live?', 'what kind of dog do you have?'...etc. just questions that you don't ask just anybody out of the blue. He seemed to want to get to know me more.

 

All my friends have told me that he looks interested in me. They are the ones that pointed it out to begin with otherwise I wouldn't have even thought that he was. They told me that he has changed his look, he lost weight, he looks at me all the time, they catch him checking me out... so... am I just naive? Am I dumb, blind, and deaf? I do like him a lot but how many more clues do I need before I know for sure that he likes me?

 

He gave me his email address and we had emailed each other a few times. A little flirts here and there but nothing too extreme just him complimenting me here and there and vice versa.

 

so is he interested and should i let him know?

[greeneyedgirl23]

I think that an easy way to find out would be to invite him out one night with you and your friends. You should tell him that it you guys are going out and he should go along. Or he and his friends could meet up with you. Maybe if you are in a social atmosphere, it would take the edge off of you and you would loosen up around him. See how he acts that night and you will have your answer.

 

I think this would work, especially because it's not like asking him out on a date, you are asking him to hang out with a group. You can jude by his behavior that night if he likes you!

 

let me know what you decide to do!