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pretorian

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Okay. very interesting and confusing story. Please read till the end and dont act prejudiced. Reply if you have any comment or opinion, not to insult.

 

I met an escort few days ago and she gave me her personal phone number after the meeting. I dont meet escorts frequently, it was my second time after several years. I contacted her agency and they arranged the meeting. However at the end of our meeting, she gave me her own personal number and told me that we should keep in touch.

 

Well, first let me give little bit background. She is 23, 10 years younger than me. We met at a nice hotel and had great time. We talked about this and that and then everything happened spontaneously. I believe she enjoyed the sex as well. She told me that too many men saw her naked before but I was the only one who had it while looking at her eyes. She even discovered her new turn on spots that she didnt know before. She herself was giving me French kisses etc...

 

She was complimenting me saying that I look like Adam Levine and I am hot. At a certain point during the sex, I felt like I am doing this with my long known girl friend. Lol.

 

After sex, she stayed 20 minutes longer than she was paid for and we had wine together at the room, chatted little bit further. She said she is going to visit Canada again next month and we should have a second meeting. She gave me her personal phone number, we are chatting over phone for last two days, flirting and everything.

 

Lol. What should I make of this situation?

 

is she acting unprofessionally or very professionally? :)

 

any comments and recommendations are welcomed. thanks

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CptInsano

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And the end of the day you met with an escort. She is there to provide a fantasy, an illusion. Yes, I would say that you met one who is very good at what she does, yet that doesn't change the facts. For many men sex is about affirmation of their manliness and attractiveness, and she provided exactly that.

 

It would be a completely different story of money wasn't involved.

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My guess is that she gave you the "gf experience" and now you think that by giving you her personal number it means she is interested in YOU.

 

But by you not going through the agency to contact her, it just means she doesn't have to give them a cut of her takings... and by being so very interested in YOU, means that you will keep coming back to her as opposed to another escort... and that also means more cash for her...

 

Escorts are not selling sex in order to find a bf, they do it for money and if they are looking for a bf, they usually do not want one who pays women for sex...

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d0nnivain

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She gave you another work # so she can possibly avoid splitting her fee with her Madame. She will not spend time with you if you aren't paying her.

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Michelle ma Belle

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It's called the Girlfriend Experience.

 

Classic and very convincing as proven by your reaction.

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She gave you another work # so she can possibly avoid splitting her fee with her Madame. She will not spend time with you if you aren't paying her.

 

yep. I thought about this as well and this is what came to my mind first. on the other hand, she could have just told me that I should contact her through this number so that she wont have to share the fee with her agency.

 

if you search internet, you will see on other forums that escorts sometimes do become friends with their clients.

 

I am not saying that this is the case but dont understand the level of affection and interest even two days after the meeting.

 

thanks for the replies.

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Michelle ma Belle

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yep. I thought about this as well and this is what came to my mind first. on the other hand, she could have just told me that I should contact her through this number so that she wont have to share the fee with her agency.

 

if you search internet, you will see on other forums that escorts sometimes do become friends with their clients.

 

I am not saying that this is the case but dont understand the level of affection and interest even two days after the meeting.

 

thanks for the replies.

 

Sweetie, she's trying to make you a regular. A weekly $$ she can count on. You want to call this friendship then so be it but you're a paying customer at the end of the day.

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Sweetie, she's trying to make you a regular. A weekly $$ she can count on. You want to call this friendship then so be it but you're a paying customer at the end of the day.

 

duly noted. thanks a lot for the comments!

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d0nnivain

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Ask her to spend time with you for free. If she says yes you may have a friend. I'll be shocked if she says yes.

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Ask her to spend time with you for free. If she says yes you may have a friend. I'll be shocked if she says yes.

 

yes. do it. see what happens

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